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Ask Chet
"If there were one tool or skill you could have
that would help you with women, what would it be?"
"Talking to women I am interested in with the same ease and confidence that I do with my male & female buddies."
“Being able to talk--provide interesting stimulating conversation for the first 5 min, 20 min, first date."
Chet’s comment:
What I taught Nate on his visit to see me here in Tampa is how to act as though you’ve known women you’ve just met like you’ve known them your whole life.
One of the things I do when I meet a woman for the first time either in person, online or on the phone is to express this to them.
I say, “Go ahead and ask any and all questions you're curious about. ACT AS THOUGH WE'VE KNOWN EACH OTHER OUR WHOLE LIVES. No holds barred. Nothing held back. And you get no teasers, no partial answers. JUST THE COMPLETE FACTS. If you can handle the truth!”
This allows me to be who I am straight from the get go. It makes her feel like she can share anything and yes I do mean anything with me. And they do!
I have women who just met me share their deepest and darkest secrets, desires and needs with me. You can learn to do all this exactly like I do when you listen to the calls of me talking to a variety of different types of women. You’ll be amazed at how easily the conversation flows and what they reveal to me. I was a total stranger just a few minutes before we started to openly communicate with each other..
You can learn how to do this naturally and easily. All you have to do is listen to the calls a few times and read the transcripts that come with each conversation.
"Well when i send e mail with a picture she would reply I am not interested good lunch I do not know what to say or she would say sorry you are not my type or you ar too old for me. I frezzee. Any answer?"
Chet’s Comment:
In the http://www.chetsdatingsystem.com I’ve created a DVD that shows you step by step how to make yourself as desirable to women as possible.
You learn what type of pictures make a woman want to know more about you.
What’s extremely valuable is how to stop posting pictures that turn women off. Everybody including women take bad pictures now and then.
What I teach you how to do is to show yourself in a positive light. As an example the pictures Nate The Virgin posted on his profile in the beginning were repulsive to most women.
Once he learned how to take pictures correctly and show that he is a fun and exciting guy to be with his response rate shot thru the roof.
Not only that but your self esteem will go up instantly when you see how much better you can look with the right pictures.
Let’s face it, the reason you’re writing to certain women and not others is how they present themselves in their pictures.
The sooner you learn how to “wrap your package” which is you, the sooner you’ll start getting the results you desire.
"A height adjuster. "My physical height"
Chet’s Comment:
Look we all have our drawbacks.
Never let your height hold you back from going for what you deserve.
Lots of women say they want a tall man.
Lots of men say they want a woman with big breasts.
If you or the woman with small breasts has a playful and seductive personality you can have almost anybody.
I’ve seen tons of men walking happily arm in arm with women a foot taller than them.
As an example, a life long friend of mine got divorced when he was 39 and had to start over.
He is 5’ 6” with a round pudgy body.
His girlfriend of 13 years is 5’11’ without heels.
He never let his height get in the way of connecting with the type of woman he wanted.
He keeps her mind stimulated.
He’s her best friend, lover and confidant.
They both understand the importance of being able to feel comfortable with each other.
I’ve met and been with lots of women who when they first saw me said I wasn’t their type.
It might have been my age, hairstyle, lack of tattoos or clothes.
But once they started talking with me everything changed.
Why?
Because I know how to get a woman to open up and talk about herself.
Not just your everyday small talk.
I’m talking about what makes her feel good when she’s around a man she’s hot for.
About imagining what it would be like to spend time with someone {me} who could make her feel things she has only fantasized about…until now!
You can learn how to do this too.
If you have anything that you feel is holding you back you must work on other parts of who you are to become as attractive of a man as you can be.
I show you how to do this in Chet’s Dating System so you can find the woman or women of your dreams.
It’s just like in any sport.
Very few athletes are real good at all phases of their chosen sport.
The important thing is to specialize at certain parts of your game.
When you learn how to communicate with women, either by your mouth or your keyboard, your confidence level with skyrocket.
I guarantee it!
When you have this skill it will overcome any shortcoming you feel you have.
“Something impossible: And I'm serious... a vibrating penis. Something more attainable: the ability to be perceived as "the best catch ever" by women I come across."
Chet’s Comment:
Nothing is impossible if you’re willing to do what it takes to get the skills you need to become the type of Romantic Hero women drool over.
In order to be perceived as the best catch ever for a woman you first must convince yourself you are indeed just that.
A good start is to start learning how to increase your attractiveness as a well rounded man. What have you been doing to improve yourself to become a great catch?
A woman’s perception of you is her reality. You need to get good at capturing her imagination and painting a picture of what it will feel like when she finally get’s her chance to land you “The Best Catch Ever”!
It doesn’t just happen. You must start studying how to become this type of man. When you learn how to present yourself as a confident, playful and fun to be with kind of guy women will want to spend as much time with you as you allow them to.
Remember you’re the prize!
“What is the best way to get women from the Internet to the phone? I meet a lot of women this way but have trouble getting it to the next step."
The best way to get any woman from the internet to talking with you on the phone is to create a burning desire in her mind.
When you send her your email it is going to make her go look at your profile. If you’ve created a fun and creative story there as I teach you how to do in the http://www.chetsdatingsystem.com …the rest is easy.
You’ve have to show her that you’re different from all the chumps who write to her everyday with the same boring lines.
You know what it’s like when you see a beautiful woman with your eyes how turned on you get, don’t you?
Well, what you need to learn how to do is to create that same feeling in her mind when she reads your emails and profile.
You want her to be thinking to herself, “this is the kind of man I’ve been longing for!”
Women get just as frustrated as men do because they have to weed through all the lame emails they get bombarded with constantly.
It takes a lot of valuable time and energy.
If you can reach out thru her monitor and grab her with your subject line you’ll convince her that she needs to explore your email on a much deeper level.
In your email and then your profile you must give her a sense of what is possible with you that can’t be had with the other men she’s been getting emails from. Only with you!
If you do these simple things your phone will be ringing off the hook just like all The Romantic Heroes Members phones have been ringing.
“Have the power to know what do women really want"
Chet’s Comment:
The best way to find out what any woman wants is to get her to open up with you.
Let her know that you are truly interested in her as a person. Tell her to act as though you’ve been best buddies for years. You’re like her best and dearest friend. If you act this way towards her first she’ll let her walls come tumbling down.
Women don’t want to be hurt but they long to be understood.
Pay attention to what she does tell you and ask questions. You can learn how to do this by listening to a series of recorded conversations I’ve had with women from around the world.
I have a proven system to get any woman to open up and share her wants, needs and desires.
I’m thinking about making available the exact same questions I ask women whenever and where ever I talk with them.
As you know, there is nothing worse that awkward long drawn out silence when you don’t know what to say. Unless of course, you don’t know what to say to get a stimulating conversation going to begin with.
It’s almost impossible for ny man to listen to how I talk to women and not begin to carry on the same type of conversations.
If you can get a woman to open up and share what she’s longing for it’s easy to convince her you can fill the need.
“Two part answer: First would be the confidence to approach in the first place. Second would be strong observational skills so I would know what to say and how to direct the conversation."
Chet’s Comment:
When Nate The Virgin came to see me with this same problem. What I did was not what he was expecting.
I found a variety of things outside of his non existent women skills. I asked if he could do a variety of things that seem just as difficult if not impossible to learn in a matter of minutes.
Every time I found a skill he was lacking in, I went first. By this I mean I showed him step by slow step exactly how to get these skills.
A man without confidence is more willing to try to learn something new unless it’s with women.
I taught him if he wants to learn how someone who has the skills he desires to master, he must pay close attention to what and how the master does it.
I’m always keenly aware of my environment.
Women walk right by Nate and he doesn’t even notice them.
It’s like any other opportunity in life, you must be looking and always ready.
I explained and proved how any and everything I’m really good at now, I once was awful.
It’s true of everybody.
When I first started to learn about computers I couldn’t remember how to turn it on.
I was slow at finding the letters on the keyboard. I would just stare and say there must be an easier way to do this.
I couldn’t send a picture when women would request I send them one. When I told them I didn’t know how, some women would be patient enough to walk me thru the steps while others would move on.
I typed in caps and small letters lIkE THIs.
I wasn’t just bad, I was horrible.
But I kept plugging away and made minor improvements day after agonizing day.
I not only learned how to send pictures, I also learned how to ask for very revealing pictures from women all over the world.
I started with zero pictures of women and now have thousands.
You can get this skill too at http://www.chetsdatingsystem.com
How did I get so good with online dating when I couldn’t type or do any of the other basic computers skills?
I got a burning desire and practiced everyday.
I was relentless at writing emails, profiles, doing specific searches for the kind of women I wanted to attract into my life.
I listened to educational cds and tapes while I was on the computer to learn the skills to become a master communicator thru the internet and more importantly in person.
I failed miserably day after day trying to master these skills.
Here’s what’s important to you…
I never considered myself a failure.
You shouldn’t either.
I just didn’t have the necessary skills yet that I was determined to master.
You’re probably at the same stage in your life.
By creating a white hot burning desire in my mind to master the skills to be the man all women want to meet, I persevered.
So can you!
Slowly but surely I kept getting a little better each and everyday.
Just like you will.
I went from no responses from women to a few.
Then a few dozen.
Then a few hundred.
And now I’ve had thousands of women communicate with me from around the world.
Would any of this ever have happened if I wouldn’t have made up my mind come hell or high water, if other people can learn these skills, so can I.
So can you!
When I took Nate out to meet women he would walk right by them terrified.
By the time I was through showing and proving he could talk to any and all women he turned into a motor mouth.
He was actually getting playful with women.
Imagine that!
You’ll be able to see what I’m talking about on the DVDs I filmed when the old Nate first arrived with no confidence and had such fear he was physically ill.
I’m not kidding. The man was puking.
I proved to Nate and more importantly Nate proved to himself all his fears about women were self imposed.
He did it to himself.
The Nate that went home a week later was a new man. His roommates will wonder what the hell happened to him.
He looks different.
Stands different.
Feels different.
And most importantly he knows he’s not the same shy, timid and fearful man he was when he decided to change for the better.
His life will never be the same!
Chet
P.S. If you’re ready to change for the better, there has never been a better time than now. The solution to all your confidence with women problems can be solved at http://www.chetsdatingsystem.com
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