Dating Articles

In Dating Limbo
Dating Limbo, the dreaded place where men sit and wonder whether they should make their move or wait until the time is “more right”. It is this limbo that will lose many a man many a women. Never fear, Chet is here!! And here are 5 signs that a woman is in to you, so wait no more:

Friend Line
When you see “Police Line Do Not Cross” this is a pretty clear message and you know not to cross that line. Don’t you wish the friend vs. dating line was so clear? You spend months working on a woman who you would like to date, and when you bring up the issue, uh oh you have been sidelined, friendship benched.

Breaking up is hard to do
“Breaking up is hard to do…” Such a catchy song, and completely true. Unless your relationship has played out like an episode of “Blind Date” then you know that no matter how long you have been involved, breaking up is never an easy thing. There are a few rules to follow though, that can soften the blow of a break-up and can keep the end of a relationship from feeling like an international incident.

Meeting Women Online
The dating world has changed drastically as we have entered the computer age. Gone away are the days of meeting a potential mate in a bar or coyly slipping your phone number to the Starbucks Frappucino maker.

Dating After Divorce
Getting back in the dating world after a divorce can be difficult and downright scary. Unfortunately, divorce can leave you emotionally scarred and feeling less than desirable to the opposite sex. It is important to take a step back and evaluate what you want and what you are ready before jumping into the dating scene once again.

Online Dating Tips for Men
If you want to meet women online, you need to know the basics of online dating. Here are 5 online dating tips to help you get started.

10 Tips for Posting Online Personal Profile Photos
You join a dating personals site because you want to meet a woman, so first impressions mean everything. The photos you post can have a major impact on the type of women you attract.

Getting Laid
Getting laid is an important topic to most men. You can search Google to find all kinds of advice on how to get laid, the fastest way to get a woman in bed and all kinds of other get laid schemes. It is ironic because many times the people writing these get laid books are the people who are not getting any.

Adult Dating Sites
There are all different genres of dating sites out there. Adult dating sites are for men and women over 18 years of age who are mostly looking for sexual relationships.

Free Online Dating
Free online dating is like having a free car. If someone offered to give you a free car, wouldn't you worry about how safe the car would be? Well, when you don't pay for a dating site, you should wonder how good the site will be.

Writing An Online Personals Profile
The key to online dating success can be found within the online dating profile. Try posting a profile without filling in most of the information and you will have zero success. What you say (or don't say) seriously affects the way women respond.

Online Dating
Online dating has changed the way people meet and date others. It wasn't all that long ago that people would place ads in the personals section in the newspaper. If someone was interested in an ad, he or she would reply through the postal mail.

How to Describe Your Not-So-Perfect Self
When describing yourself in your profile on an online dating site, it is natural to not want to list your flaws. You want women to see you in the best light possible, and laying it out that you are overweight and unemployed might not seem like the best way to do that. Fortunately, there are some positive, even charming, things you can say to attract that special someone.

Why Women Want Men Who Have Their Financial House In Order
It’s very simple. Someone who is constantly late with their payments, always behind the eight ball, forever over extending themselves and great at giving excuses to creditors, girlfriends, bosses and the landlord are... unattractive.

What Kind of Woman Are You Looking For?
When a woman comes into your life, how do you know if she is someone you want to share yourself with? There are several things to think about besides her charming personality, killer legs and beautiful smile.

Ten Great Date Ideas
A movie and dinner can be fun, but why not really impress her by taking her out to do something unique and original? You will win bonus points, and you might even learn something about her in the process. Here are some creative ideas for dates that will help you be the man she wants to spend more time with.

Online Dating Safety
Dating online can be fun and enjoyable, but over time some have misused it for their own agendas. As in real life, one has to be careful when dating someone they hardly know. Here are some tips that will make your dating experience safe and enjoyable.

How to Be Attractive to a Woman
Different women will find different things attractive when it comes to men. But there are some basics that matter across the board. The word “attractive” is defined as: “pleasing to the eye or mind.” The only way that you are going to get anywhere with any woman is if you are pleasing to her eyes and her mind. Here are a few things that can help you be a more attractive guy.

Conversations and Small Talk
Being a good conversationalist is an important trait, because, many times, a conversation can be someone’s first impression of you. Listening to how a person participates in a conversation can tell you a lot about their personality.

How to Approach a Woman
If you are at a bar or a party with your friends, it is likely that an attractive woman across the room will catch your eye. The tricky part is walking up that woman, getting her attention, and being handsome, charming, and witty enough that she will go home with you.

How to Increase Self Confidence
There are many advantages of having high self confidence: you can face new challenges with comfort, find it easier to be yourself in social situations, you enjoy your social life much more, and simply have a greater enjoyment of life.

How To Boost Your Odds Of Having A “First Date” Success! - Part 2
Last time we talked about how the process of finding someone suitable to go out with, on even a first date, sometimes feels as difficult as being a salmon swimming upstream.

How To Boost Your Odds Of Having A “First Date” Success! - Part 1
Dating, and all the games that go along with it, can sometimes be as frustrating as trying to learn how to ride a bike. As soon as you think you’ve “got it”, next thing you know, you’re on the floor, bruised, banged up, worn out and licking your wounds, yet your only option is to get up and get back on and give it yet one more try.

Dating Tips: What You Must Know BEFORE Getting Started - Part 3
Today we’re going to wrap up our series on unusual responses to dating questions asked in a survey. If you’ve been following along closely, then you already know getting inside your potential date’s mind, gives you valuable information you can use when planning out your approach “strategy”.

Dating Tips: What You Must Know BEFORE Getting Started - Part 2
Last time we talked about some of the wacky beliefs and perceptions about dating, that many people have. This is insightful and important information to know. I mean, just think about it: if you have some insight into how people feel about dating, then it’s easy for you to meet and then exceed all their expectations, right?

Attack of the Green-Eyed Monster
One of the seven deadly sins is envy, which is interchangeable with jealousy. This sin will, if let get out of control, end a relationship in no time flat. There is good jealousy and bad jealousy and knowing when just enough jealousy becomes too much jealousy will go a long way to allowing you to be in a relationship that is built on the foundation of a beginning relationship-trust.

"It is a characteristic of wisdom not to do desperate things." ~ Henry David Thoreau
A man who portrays desperation to a woman will ultimately portray weakness. This is never a redeeming quality in a man, nor is this an attractive quality. I have said it before and I will say it again, confidence is the key to being a star player in the dating game. Portraying desperation does two things. 1) It makes you out to be a sad, wimpy, creepy, girlie-man. 2) It opens the door for a woman to take full advantage of you.

THE RULES OF EFFECTIVE AND POLITE CONVERSATION ON THE NET
JUST AS POLITE CONVERSATION HAS UNSPOKEN RULES ON HOW IT SHOULD BE CONDUCTED, SO DOES INTERNET CONVERSATION. Ahem... ah... that’s better. Our every day lives are conducted with social graces that we learned when we were quite young, and thus we can avoid embarrassing faux paus, because we know what should be embarrassing. Thank goodness for these rules other wise we would all be farting and belching in public and the work place would be a stinky place to be, especially on Mexican food day. What most people aren’t aware of, especially those known as "net newbies" is that there is in fact a set of rules that you should follow in order to avoid misunderstandings and to have a pleasant online experience.

The Woman with Diamonds in Her Eyes
You have seen her. Maybe you have seen her at your office, maybe you noticed her at a bar, maybe you have even dated her. Her heart is full of gold and she only has eyes for the almighty dollar. She is a gold digger. Maybe she doesn’t come off as an Anna Nicole type. She isn’t on the arm of a millionaire who died and hasn’t yet been informed of this. Gold diggers do not come in the stereotypical forms that you can spot from a mile away. They are more cunning, come in different shapes and sizes, and are cunning as foxes. Sure, having a trophy wife does have its perks, but if you are looking for substance in your relationship then there are a few tips that might help you avoid the woman who is "all about the Benjamin's".

Entering the Dating World as a Divorced Dad
Dating is hard. Being a divorced dater is harder. Being a divorced dad back in the dating scene is the hardest. Once divorced the dating scene, already known for being a bit difficult becomes even more so. If you are a divorced dad looking for love a second time around, then you know all too well the problems that you face, but don't give up. The amount of people who are divorced and back on the dating scene is huge, and you are bound to find women are out there that know exactly what you are going through.

The Long-Run
You have found the woman of your dreams. She makes you happy and your relationship has been running smoothly for months. Now you are wondering when the illusion will be shattered. You wonder when things will change and this relationship will end like all of the others. This doesn't have to be the case. You can keep yourself from ending up broken hearted with nothing to show but an empty wallet and an empty email box.