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How to Be Attractive to a Woman

Different women will find different things attractive when it comes to men. But there are some basics that matter across the board. The word “attractive” is defined as: “pleasing to the eye or mind.” The only way that you are going to get anywhere with any woman is if you are pleasing to her eyes and her mind. Here are a few things that can help you be a more attractive guy.

Let’s start with pleasing her eyes. First of all, personal hygiene is extremely important. Shower on a regular basis, make sure your fingernails are clean and trimmed, and keep your facial hair under control. Wear a fragrance that will catch her attention, but do not use so much that it is overpowering. Usually a dab behind the ears will do. Keep your breath fresh and consider using a whitening treatment if your smile is a little faded. Girls love a guy with a great smile.

You do not need to spend a fortune on your wardrobe to look good to a woman. Wear clothes that are clean and not wrinkled. A nice shirt and a clean pair of jeans or khakis will be just fine for most occasions. Wear something that is comfortable to you.

Most girls are not looking for a bodybuilder… just a physically fit and healthy guy. Eat right and get some exercise. If you have decent eating habits, drink plenty of water, and live a relatively active lifestyle, it will show in more than just your biceps. You will have a better complexion, increased stamina and strength, and it will boost your self confidence.

Changing your posture can make a world of difference. If you are the slouching type, work on straightening your back. Not only will it give the impression that you are a confident man, it will also make you look taller.

Be a positive person. For the most part, people do not enjoy being around someone who has a gloomy outlook on life. Listen to yourself when you are talking to people. If you notice that you dwell on negative things that happened or may happen to you, work on changing your attitude. Pay close attention to what you are saying, and for every negative thing that you mention, throw in two positive things. It can be as simple as noting how beautiful the afternoon is. By projecting a positive image, people will think positive thoughts about you.

Watch your language. Using vulgar language in a conversation can be a turnoff. Work on your conversation skills. If you are worried about not having anything to talk about, ask her questions about her life and her interests. Most people love answering questions about themselves. Keep up on the news and read books and magazines that look interesting to you. There is always something you can pull out of the Sunday newspaper that will spark conversation.

Have a sense of humor. Smile or laugh when someone makes a joke, and maybe try out a couple yourself. It doesn’t hurt to be self-deprecating. Share the story about the fist fight between you and the fax machine this morning at work. Make sure to add that the fax machine won. Make a mental note of funny little things that happen to you throughout your day and turn them into stories when you are talking to people. Practice initiating conversations with random people that you might not usually talk to. Be friendly with your pharmacist, the person standing next to you in line at the grocery store, or the old lady at the laundromat. The more you do this, the more comfortable you will feel talking to people.

As you can see, being an attractive person is not just about big muscles and a sporty car. Being attractive can actually be a very simple thing. Your hygiene, clothes, health, and the way you carry yourself are very important physical things you can work on towards being more attractive to women. Perhaps more important are the not-so-physical things: your outlook on life, conversation skills, and sense of humor. It may sound like a lot, but if you start slowly incorporating these impressions into your life, you will see that being an attractive man is not that difficult at all.