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Dating Tips: What You Must Know BEFORE Getting Started - Part 2

Last time we talked about some of the wacky beliefs and perceptions about dating, that many people have.

This is insightful and important information to know.

I mean, just think about it: if you have some insight into how people feel about dating, then it’s easy for you to meet and then exceed all their expectations, right?

And if you exceed someone’s expectations -- I don’t care whether you’re talking about dating or business...

You’re In Like Flynn!

So without any further ado, let’s move ahead.

Here’s something you’ll find very interesting: On a date, the first thing people notice is your looks (38%)... the next thing is your personality (17%)... and the third thing people notice is your eyes (10%).

What does this tell you?

Well, for starters it tells you how sharp (or not) you’re dressed goes a long long way.

So you can be the nicest guy in the world... have good teeth, clean fingernails, and be the most caring person in the world on top of that, but if you look like crap...

You’re Dead!

So above anything else, make sure your appearance is worthy, or else she won’t even get to your personality and your eyes.

As far as personality goes, to tell you the truth, I’m surprised it was only 17%. After all, everyone says they’re looking for that magic “chemistry,” and personality is where all that comes from, isn’t it?

Sometimes you just don’t know what’s going through people’s minds, I guess.

And as far as your eyes go -- let me give you a little hint here. When you look at a woman, look at her with “open (but not bulging) eyes” that are smiling. They say, “the eyes are the window to your soul”, and I’ve met many many people who are very adept at reading body language, and they tell me one of the first things they look at, is your eyes.

So don’t kid yourself here -- your partner CAN tell a lot about you through your eyes.

That’s why you’ve heard about “sad eyes”... that “glint in your eye”... and even “horny eyes” -- your eyes reveal a LOT about who you are and what you’re thinking.

This one’s a no-brainer: 69% of people (and “No”, I didn’t make that number up) said they WOULD use the internet to find dates!

So if you’re one of these “doubting Thomases” who are still skeptical about online dating as a valid way of meeting awesome, hot, incredible women...

Then Get Over It!

Look, there are 296 million people here in the United States, and if 51% if them are women, that means that there are 151 Million women out there.

Now let’s be really conservative and say that “ONLY” half of these women are of dating age, have a sound mind and are lucid. So that leaves us with roughly 75 million ladies who are “eligible”.

And since 69% of them will be using the internet to find dates, romance, or whatever, that leaves you with...

Only 52,081.200 Women To Choose From!

And I don’t presume to know what your taste in women is, but I’d have to say, you’ll be able to find AT LEAST one or two good ones “somewhere” in there for you.

Get it?

Good, because the bottom line here is that if you’re NOT online looking for love, then you’re wasting a LOT of time and missing out on a LOT of exciting and passionate experiences you could be enjoying in your life right this very moment!

Now here’s something you can REALLY use to your advantage: 42% of all people said they find it “Quite Difficult” to meet people.

But I think what these people are REALLY responding to is the fact that it is quite difficult to meet any kind of quality people out there.

And how can you use this to your advantage?

Well, for starters, empathizing with a woman you’re interested in, about “how difficult it is to meet quality people” online, is certainly an easy way of sharing a common bond.

But be careful here, this isn’t exactly something she probably hasn’t heard before.

What you should do is, (and as you can see, this is becoming a recurring theme) try and be “unconventional”. And I don’t mean “unconventional” as in “being a complete nut” -- but I mean unconventional as in being “different”.

Revealing things about yourself that provoke curiosity for example, like... “I once went on a road-trip spur of the moment, and it turned out to be one of the wildest adventures I’ve ever experienced.”

Things like that will make you stand out and look different.

But what if you’re a boring guy and you really haven’t done anything “that different”?

I disagree -- I think we’ve all had different experiences, but what makes them exciting is how you present what these experiences were.

For instance, let’s say you’re really into computers.

Telling her “I can write code in 6 different languages” is a really good way to make sure you’re e-mails get deleted -- after all, do you really think a woman is going to get turned on by that?

Even if you might, you’ve got to understand that very few people beside you will.

But saying something like “I stumbled across a very unusual way of using a website, that allows you to “dig behind the scenes” of the business revealing what’s really going on with this operation,” is a lot more intriguing, wouldn’t you say?

See, it’s all in your marketing, or... “It’s not WHAT you say... it’s HOW you say it!”

Next time, we’ll take a good look at some more unusual facts about how people perceive dating, so you’ll be able to understand what you’re up against -- and how to succeed at it -- a little better than you are right now.

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