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Dating Tips: What You Must Know BEFORE Getting Started - Part 3

Today we’re going to wrap up our series on unusual responses to dating questions asked in a survey.

If you’ve been following along closely, then you already know getting inside your potential date’s mind, gives you valuable information you can use when planning out your approach “strategy”.

For instance, here’s some interesting news: 44% of all singles would like to get married.

This means they’re playin’ the game “for keeps”.

On the one hand, that’s good to know, because if you are too, there are a high percentage of women are looking for the same thing you are.

On the other hand, if you’re just playing the dating game for fun... well, you need to be careful what you’re doing because you may ruffle a few feathers here and there.

Now here’s something I’ve been preaching about for a while -- it has to do with the importance of dressing sharp and looking your best.

45% of all women say a man’s SHOES are “quite important”, when it comes time to checking him out.

So all you numskulls out there who insist on getting by with beat-up old tennis shoes or grimy work-boots, keep that in mind.

Remember, you can’t catch largemouth bass using rolled up old bread as bait, so if you’re not dressed nicely (and this does NOT mean dressing up in expensive clothing), you’re simply NOT going to catch nice female “fish” either, because you’re using the wrong bait.

Got it?

Good.

Now for something that’ll make you laugh! You know how you’re always hearing guys say how women are “too needy” and all you need to do is go out on one good date and then they think you should be calling them up 24/7?

Well, it turns out, most women feel the same way about us. See, 38% of all women feel that men are “too clingy” these days.

And if they’re feeling it, it’s so -- they aren’t making this stuff up any more than you are.

I don’t know if you’re one of the clingy ones, but clearly, more guys are being “needy” than you think. And NOTHING turns a woman off more than a guy who’s needy and insecure.

You need to be the total OPPOSITE way -- confident and independent -- to attract quality women.

The only women attracted to needy men are care-takers. These women will NOT push you forward to grow and develop in your life -- in fact, they’ll give you all the excuses you need to hold you back.

Now some men may like that, but personally, I’d rather be with someone who’s “growth” oriented and who’s looking into the future, not behind them in the past.

And lastly, this one’s no shocker, but I’ve got a great way around it, so stay put.

42% of all women, when asked if men should pay for dinner, said “Yes, Always!”

Well tie me up in a knot and call me shorty, but ain’t that a surprise!

Even an idiot could see that one coming, right?

Well, like I’ve said on my videos, the solution to this problem is simple, so let me give you the abbreviated “cliff notes” version of it here: You give them my “Chet’s Famous Chicken Dinner.”

You invite them over to your house for dinner. While you’re cooking them dinner, you break out a few drinks, and you’re walking around in some studly or sexy looking clothes -- because believe me, women like seeing men in sexy clothing as much as men like seeing women in sexy clothing.

And the fact that you’re catering to her -- in fact, don’t let her do a THING -- is HUGE.

Because she’s not used to getting to experience something like this at all.

You wash the fruit... you make the salad... you pour the wine -- whatever it is, YOU do it.

And the thing is, the reason you’re making chicken, is because if you’re making chicken, salad, baked potato, or whatever, the whole meal’s going to cost you less than 10 bucks!

Shit, even if add in a bottle of wine, you’re still walking out of there spending less money than even a mediocre entrée at any half-way decent place, will cost you.

Even if you go to Chili’s, you’re going to spend at least $12.99 EACH on dinner, not including drinks... not including if you get yourself some kind of appetizer like nachos... and not including tax and a tip for the waitress!

So that’s why with Chet’s Famous Chicken Dinner, you can’t go wrong.

Now I’m not going to get into what you do after dinner, or how you warm your date up, that’s another subject for another time, but I’ve done this literally over 100 times, and let’s just say this: It’s an EXCELLENT way of establishing “rapport” between you and your date.

I hope you’ve enjoyed this series about uncovering some of the quirky perceptions and desires of people in the dating scene out there today.

And most important, I hope you discovered something you didn’t know before, that you can now use to make your life, or at least your dating life, a little easier and a lot more fun!

Contact Chet: 813-451-6466 Email Chet: chetspest @ gmail . com