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Dating Tips for Men
Looks 20 Years Younger: Blessing Or Curse
Let's dig into my mailbox today and see what's there:
"My name is XXX. I am 51 years old. I have a B.S. in Mechanical Engineering and I work for a large Fortune 500 company here in Texas. I heard about your website while I was listening to you speak on David DeAngelo's MEETING WOMEN ONLINE CD. I really agreed with your view points on how to meet and treat woman. Plus you sounded so much like a very good friend that I grew up with in Texas. He also has a great, outgoing personality.
My biggest challenge is living in a small town. This is an oil field town that does not attract professional, good looking woman. They come here for a little while and move on to the larger towns such as El Paso, Dallas, Forth Worth, Lubbock, Austin & Houston. I have considered moving, but I really love my career, freedom and the financial stability I have worked hard to establish."
Hey, thanks so much for writing in.
First of all, you should know that I too, live in a small suburb of Tampa, and in this little old town, not only have I never had trouble finding women (that's almost like saying you'll run out of beer), but I'd say at least 20% of the women I've been involved with have flown in to Tampa to meet me.
They come from all over, but for some reason, there's a preponderance of Canadians who seem to "cum" down here. I'm not sure if it's the sunny weather that attracts them, or if there's something about my personality that attracts them, but they'll think nothing of hoping on a plane and flying down here.
So, for starters, remove the perceived limitation of geography from your mind. After all, your soulmate -- the woman who you'll LOVE spending the rest of your life with, may already be sitting in Jacksonville, Florida waiting to run into you.
And why would you miss out on an opportunity like that?
Especially in today's day-and-age, with cheap airfares, online communication, and cell phones, you MIGHT not even know she's NOT living just around the corner, right?
Also, I have no intentions of leaving where I'm at either. My businesses are here, one of my partners is here, and my closest friend of 30 years is also here, and like you, I too enjoy my freedom and my financial stability.
"My age is an obstacle that I have. I am blessed that I look like and have the body of a 30 year old, but being honest with the younger women (25-45) I have dated, and telling them my age turns most of them off.
In my online profiles, I put that I am age 31. When I had my true age down, I got NO RESPONSES!!! I know that age is just a number. I also know that I have not found the right woman where this would not be an issue with her."
If you haven't already done so, order my online dating system right away, because you and I are in the exact same boat (I'm 52 and look much younger), and I've developed a fool-proof online dating system for exactly HOW to deal with this.
In fact, knowing the right way of handling this ONE problem alone, WITHOUT you ending up looking like a dirt-bag or a weasel, will MORE than pay for your investment in the online dating system.
The thing is, you want to be able to attract the type of women you deserve, that you are physically compatible with, and yet... not look like a dirty rotten scoundrel, and I've developed the ideal way of doing this.
In fact, it works like a charm with any woman. I can't say I've had more than 1 or 2 women in the last 6 years, squawk at it.
"In a perfect world I would meet the woman of my dreams either online, at a social gathering, shopping at the grocery store, or through a good friend. With the right woman, the relationship would have a give and take balance to it, with a firm foundation of respect for each other.
I want to get your templates for email communication to attract the right women online. I see the internet as a way for me to meet a wider range of SANE women. I have been lucky (really very unlucky) to have met 4 different CRAZY women online.
3 of them lived out of town, in Texas, and came to see me here. The fourth 1 lived in Australia and thank God for the distance & immigration, she couldn't come to the states to visit me!!!
My goal is to use online dating services as one of the ways to help me meet the woman of my dreams. Thanks for listening to me. I look forward to any advice you can give me."
You are quite welcome, and rest assured, we’ve all met our share of crazy ones. Don’t feel bad though, because women are saying the same thing about us. It’s just a numbers game, that’s all.
One of the things you'll enjoy most about my online dating system is the fact that you set things up (especially your private dating website) so that the women who are potential nuts (and of course, this standard is different for every guy out there), actually dis-qualify themselves from moving forward into your funnel.
This is an old sales trick I learned a long time ago.
Basically, you want to make SURE you're prospects are really "qualified" to work with you, before you start wasting any time on them, and I've developed Chet's Online Dating System - so it works the same way.
In order for a woman to move ahead (either on her own, or after you've initiated contact), she'll have to "prove" she qualifies, so this way anyone who DOES "advance", does so because she deserves to be there.
I don't have even one minute to waste, and it sounds like you're the same way. That's why my online dating system cranks out maximum women, in minimum time, and lets you operate at optimum dating efficiency.
Thanks again for writing in...
Now go find the woman of your dreams,
Chet Rowland, The Chetinator
Creator of Chet's "Automatic" Online Dating System
The World's First Sexual Attraction System For Men
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