|
|
|||||
|
|
Dating Tips for Men
Want To Ask Her?
Be careful what you read, because not everything you read is true.
Or at least be SELECTIVE about who you're listening to.
Here's why: The other day, I was reading some online "pickup" information, and this is what it said.
"Here are the kinds of questions you want to ask:
Do you have any pets? Which types of animals do you love to be around? Why did you join this website? Are you doing what you love?"
Now these kinds of questions might be all well and good if you're talking to your third grade teacher, or if you're a dentist and you're making small talk with your patients while you're about to drill down and fill up a new cavity or something, but if you're trying to attract a woman who may very well be the love of your life, and you ask her questions like this, you're NOT very likely to get a response back from her.
That is...
If she could even stay awake after reading a boring e-mail like that.
You know, in business, being boring is the kiss of death when it comes to marketing, and it's no different when it comes to "marketing" yourself to women.
First of all, you need to make good use of the information on the dating website she's listed about herself. If you're paying attention to things, it means you've already read her profile, so you've got TONS of good material to work with.
So if she already said she likes cats, you're not going to go and ask her "Do you have any pets?", instead you're going to want to tell her some kind of a story about an experience you had with cats, or else you're going to want to use some kind of a sexual innuendo about you and cats (without being filthy -- imagination and a little creativity works wonders here -- being a pervert doesn't).
One thing you're also going to want to do is spend a lot of time going through the "275+ Complete LIVE e-mail Screw-Ups Men Send Women!" manual that's included inside the Find Your Soulmate System.
You're going to see hundreds of questions and comments you THOUGHT might work, but in reality, stink.
For instance, on page 16 you'll see what appears to be a very innocent comment. And it is -- absolutely harmless if you're talking to a buddy -- but if you're talking to a WOMAN, and you're trying to capture her attention and win her heart, the ONLY thing this comment is worthy of, is a swift hit to the "delete" key.
And then you're gone into cyberspace heaven, never to be seen or heard from again.
So the next time you're getting ready to ask questions, don't talk about the "fish on the wall" -- she can get that anytime. Instead use my e-mail templates - and her own background, to generate enthusiasm and curiosity, and you'll stand out like a shining star... and instead of missing out on all the action, you'll be smack dab in the MIDDLE of it.
Now go find the woman of your dreams,
Chet Rowland, The Chetinator
Creator of Chet's "Automatic" Online Dating System
The World's First Sexual Attraction System For Men
Copyright © and Trademark ™ 
All Rights Reserved