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Dating Tips for Men
"I'll Do Anything To Attract The Woman Of My Dreams"
I received this e-mail in my box this morning:
"Hi Chet, Wish you would have a look at what I am saying now to tell me what I am doing wrong, I mean is it the photos or lack of, will the website help (sorry don't know how to answer most of the questions, as mentioned in my earlier emails, haven't got any good pictures either), is my email subject not getting girls to look at my profile for instance, aren't my adhusted 'I like the sense' letters attractive to women, they sound good to me . I am prepared to do anything to attract the girl of my dreams, thinking of doing a relationship weekend held in Austria to get this sorted. Please just help me out now. Is there a one on one coaching session to get me what you have given Nate, can't bare living alone anymore, probably can't afford it but need my sex life handled."
- Nick
Nick, You're telling me you have NOT gotten your web site put together. Jo and the rest of my very talented and caring team help every member put a fantastic web page together IF and when they ask.
Nate has learned that you can get anything you want if you just learn to go for it and ask for what you want. Provided of course, you take action and improve your skills like I teach you to do.
I have a few spots for one on one coaching for students like Nate who have a true burning desire to find the woman of their dreams.
You haven't gotten any good pictures yet. Why not? You've had over a month to do so.
Nick, you say you are willing to do anything to find the woman of your dreams. Yet, you have NOT done the simple things I show you exactly how to do step by step.
The exact same things Nate and other happy and successful members are easily doing.
What action steps have you taken to improve who you are as a person?
What books have you been reading?
What tapes or CDs having you been listening to everyday to improve who you are and want to become?
How many times have you gone thru the Chet's Online Dating System, that by the way, you couldn't wait to get your hands on?
You're like an employee who goes to his boss and says he needs a pay raise. When he asks you, "What are you going to do to earn the raise?" you say you don't know.
When he ask, "What are you doing above and beyond the job description when you were hired at your present pay rate?
You say, "NOTHING, I'm doing the same."
Well Nick, guess what?
You have NOT improved your value as an employee to your boss in ANY way.
You should consider yourself lucky he even keeps your sorry butt around.
Much less, give you more just because you need and want more.
Imagine, going into your local pub and telling the bartender, since you come here on a regular basis you want half price beer.
He'd tell you to take a hike.
You don't get anything because you want it.
You get everything in life because you deserve it.
You reap what you sow.
And you have NOT sowed anything yet.
I went and looked thru your profile and the emails you've sent to a few women.
You have been writing to women who are no longer active on the site. If they haven't been on the site for more than 3 days DO NOT write to them. Work on the women who are on the site on a regular basis.
I can see that they have NOT been on the site for over 2-3 weeks. This means no matter how great your letters are you will never hear back because they never read your emails.
Try sending letters to women buried at a cemetery and see how many respond back.
Pay attention to the small details because they are huge in the results you get.
You need to go thru the dvds at least 5 times. You are NOT personalizing each email letter.
Listen to me talk to women on the cds in your online dating system. Read the transcripts that come with each conversation recorded on cd over and over again. Just like your favorite song. You know the one you can't get out of your mind, right?
You'll find yourself saying the same things to women without even thinking about it. It will become part of your subconscious mind. The right things to say will be there for you when the opportunity presents itself.
You can write and talk to women just like I do.
They can tell you have NOT read their profiles because you haven't talked about anything they wrote about.
I can tell by the questions you ask that you have Not even come close to doing this.
You say in your profile tattoos are a turn off for you, yet you write to women with tattoos.
Learn to pay attention to every small detail each woman reveals to you. Whether it's through written or spoken words. It's free information to help you connect with her.
Making a woman your favorite or sending her winks will not cut it. You must send personalized emails that stimulate their minds and capture their imaginations.
You have NOT personalized a single letter you've sent. None, Zip, Nada, Zero!
You are doing the equivalent of throwing crap up against the wall and hoping something sticks.
I've taught you better. Use what I teach and how I teach it. Other men all over the world are doing exactly what I share with them everyday.
I've made the instructions so easy even a drunk monkey can follow along!
Each time you send a letter always change the subject line. Which of these do you think is more of a challenge....
This member might be interested in you
or
This great kisser MIGHT BE interested in you!
You see the difference, don't you?
You must send the right letter according to the type of woman you're writing to.
There are over a hundred available for you to chose from.
It's like if you reply with the right answer to the wrong question. You MUST read her whole profile and what she reveals and respond to her accordingly. Just because you know what you want to say doesn't mean it's the right response.
Get your butt out into the real world and have somebody or anybody...your choice...take some pictures of you doing fun and exciting things.
I devoted a whole DVD showing exactly how to do this. I walk you thru everything I do and other devoted students are doing. If you were being graded you'd flunk out because you're NOT following directions due to your lack of going thru ChetsDatingSystem. I'd have to say you've only glanced at the tools I've provided you.
Your pictures make you look like a dull couch potato NOT a fun loving, confident, and exciting Romantic Hero that women can't wait to get their hands on.
Women don't like couch potatoes.
They all long for a Romantic Hero in their life.
Read their profiles and you'll see them reveal this over and over again.
I'd take out the part that you're studying NLP as some women will think you're using it on them.
Your profile is excellent but you must send out more than 50 emails per month. Which by the way, over half of the women you've been writing to are no longer on the site. Again pay attention to details. When you're looking for women to communicate with, make sure they've been to the site within the last 3 days.
Now go find the woman of your dreams,
Chet Rowland, The Chetinator
Creator of Chet's "Automatic" Online Dating System
The World's First Sexual Attraction System For Men
P.S. Are you ready to stop making the same mistakes over and over again? Would you like to have more hot quality women to love in your life? It's easy when you get your butt over here and decide "today is the day you change your life forever"!
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