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Dating Tips for Men
How To Control Your Emotional 'On' Buttons
How many times has this happened to you?
You're attracted to a woman -- either someone you think is physically "hot" or someone you're emotionally turned on by... you get the opportunity to hook up with her -- either online or offline... she responds favorably... and before you know it -- almost unwillingly -- you're either in heavy "like" with her, or you suddenly think you've found "Mrs. Right?"
If things work out, GREAT!
But if things don't work out, as they usually don't, you get bummed out and disappointed.
What I want to go over with you then, is an easy way you can take control over your emotional "on" button, so YOU get to decide when it gets turned on, as opposed to it going on "automatically".
O.K.?
Good, let's get to it.
The thing you need to realize about this emotional "on" button, is the "switch" that's triggering it, is your "needy" button.
And the needy button has hair-trigger sensitivity. Meaning, it doesn't need to be pushed very hard, to go off.
So what you want to do is first of all, is...Recognize This!
Realize you are feeling needy and this is why you get so attached, so quickly. It has absolutely NOTHING to do with HER. It's simply her willingness to respond to you, which satisfies a part of your "needy" button, that's making you jump so quickly.
In other words, whether or not she's "The One" is completely irrelevant here. Hey, let's face it: You may not even know here last name at this point, or where she was even born, and yet... you're feeling "chemistry" over the little back-and-forth small-talk you've had.
Is this ridiculous, or what?
That's why, one of the messages I'm constantly hammering home to you in Chet's Online Dating System - is that you must always be prospecting, all the time.
See, the grass is ALWAYS greener on the other side, but... if you're always seeing the other side, then YOU get to decide what the grass looks like.
Am I making sense here?
If you are going through LOADS of women, NONE of them will do ANYTHING for you, unless they deserve it. In this situation, your needy button won't be so needy anymore, because it's always being stroked.
On the other hand, if you’re only talking to a FEW women, you almost GUAR-UN-TEES your needy button will be on fire, all the time.
Look, the bottom line is, nothing gives you more power and control over your own life, than having choices.
Having choices over where you live... what kind of car you drive... the kind of friends you have... and most important, the kind of women YOU choose to get involved with.
Remember, the ball really is... in your court.
Now go find the woman of your dreams,
Chet Rowland, The Chetinator
Creator of Chet's "Automatic" Online Dating System
The World's First Sexual Attraction System For Men
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