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Dating Tipsfor Men
How To Create A Once-In-A-Lifetime Experience
Here's an e-mail I recently received asking a VERY practical question about "paying" for a woman to come and visit you from out of town:
"I got your web site from DeAngelo's Internet dating CD. I got more out of your participation than any other.
That being said, you talked about getting "long distance" women to fly out to your location. How do you convince a hot woman she needs to spend the bucks and jump on a plane to visit when she has never met you in person?
I ask this because, I have been communicating with a gorgeous woman online. I have her cell and home number. I have her address. And I've built a lot of attraction using David's C&F and have her calling me 4-5 X's a week.
Like I said...she is a 10+... is 18 yrs my Jr. (she's 30 & I'm 48). I know I would have a blast if I could get her to fly out to me, (it's already been discussed). She's not the richest honey around and says she'd love to...but can't afford it. I'm not about to send her the money, so what do you suggest? Thanks, Bob"
Not only is this is a GREAT question, but for many men, it's also an enviable position to be in, -- for all the reasons Bob's mentioned: she's hot, she's younger than him by a LOT of years (and some guys LOVE that)… and she's calling him all the time.
The first thing Bob wants to do is to paint a picture to this woman that by her coming down to visit him, she's going to get a chance to enjoy a once-in-a-lifetime experience.
And how does he do this?
The answer is simple: By stimulating her mind using curiosity and by amplifying those visions of lust which she must already have, otherwise she wouldn't be calling him so many times.
On my Eavesdrop line Audio CD's - I show you exactly how to do this, by telling her, in very specific detail, exactly what she'll be MISSING by staying away.
I show you HOW to talk.... what to say... and in this case, what seems MOST important, I also show you how to drop HUGE hints about sex and even how to get her talking about intimate sexual issues like the sex toys she prefers.
I also WON'T let her come down right away when she wants to -- this makes her want me even more.
Often times though, the reality of your situation becomes an issue of "How badly do you really want to see this woman?"
For instance, you could just tell her she needs to book her flight a few weeks out to save herself some money. Or, you could split the cost 50 / 50, or you could pay for her to come down yourself.
But remember, if you pay for her, you're probably going to be setting a precedent you may be forced into repeating, over-and-over again, so think good and hard about this one.
Like I've said before though, you're not in a relationship with this woman yet -- until you're both committed to it, so don't wind up getting in the hole financially, just for the "potential" chance at making something happen. This way if NOTHING happens, you won't be left standing there feeling like an idiot, O.K.?
Now go find the woman of your dreams,
Chet Rowland, The Chetinator
Creator of Chet's "Automatic" Online Dating System
The World's First Sexual Attraction System For Men
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