Dating Tips for Men

You're In Darn Good Shape But...

Here's an e-mail I recently received from a subscriber of mine. You'll find this one VERY interesting:

"Chet,

About me, 53 and in damn good shape I work out regularly was a former Vietnam Marine, previously married twice....lived in Tokyo for eight years and never had trouble picking up women even married one but she hauled ass on me once she got her green card."

First of all, being a former military man is a HUGE plus, for a lot of women. Plenty of gals are attracted to this, for one reason or another.

But be careful here, remember that just because you had one sour experience, it doesn't mean they ALL have to be this way. What happened in your past has NOTHING to do with what's happening to you today, or in your future, unless YOU let it.

Don't let this negative experience you had make you become negative about women, and about relationships in general, otherwise you’ll be missing out on finding the love of your life, for sure.

"My problem is time...I work like a dog, truck driver local....was a former graphic designer in Japan but considered over-qualified so went to truck driving school. Work for a local yard of a national lumber company and deliver new house packages....so early to work and lots of over time. So very limited in time...."

You are an absolutely PERFECT person for Chet's Online Dating System

The amount of time you save by using the online dating system to attract women, MORE than pays for itself, versus the time most guys spend hoping and praying to get some woman to throw them a bone (if they even get a response), or send them an e-mail.

You'll find my templates in the Find Your Soulmate system - MOST helpful in your situation.

Plus, I even show you how to bring out the benefits of the kind of job you do, so you INCREASE your appeal, even in the most BORING jobs. With YOUR wealth of experience, you'll be knocking them dead using my online dating system.

"I'd rather date women my own age...they become suspicious because I am so confident acting and am comfortable with myself. I get younger women to interact with me better with the cocky comedy thing, but I just use it with them to practice.

But they won't go out with me because of the age thing. The one's my own age think after I meet them that I am up to something, they feel there is no way a guy like me actually likes myself so much.

They like the cocky funny thing first very much but then they are having too much fun and I guess it reminds them of the last date they were on so they begin to think hey something is up this isn't normal.

I just don't have time to start chasing them, I just go on to the next. I am hoping the internet thing will expand my opportunities to find a better class of ass than your standard trailer park type."

First off, if you'd rather date women your own age, then stop wasting time "practicing" on younger women. That's like saying you like Bass fishing, but you're practicing catching Tarpon.

Totally different skill-set, right?

Plus, you've got to understand, women your age will NOT like cocky and funny because they're interested in things like stability, safety, kindness, and having a sense of security and permanence.

One thing you said is that women your own age "feel there is no way a guy like me actually likes myself so much."

To me this says you're spending too much time being pre-occupied with YOU, and not enough time sharing and caring about HER.

Look, women like confidence. In fact, they LOVE confident men.

But... what you're saying is that you're actually coming across as over-confident, or cocky and obnoxious, probably without even knowing it.

I used to do this a lot myself in my younger years. I was really bad about letting them know how "cool" and "confident" I was, instead of letting her know I was confident by my "actions" or my body language.

And, like you, women used to think I was arrogant.

It took a lot of soul searching for me to admit this, but I'm glad I did, because the amount and quality of women I wound up attracting AFTER I changed my approach, was DRAMATICALLY higher and better.

I think if you do the same thing -- or at least start trying this a few times, you will see LOADS of success, and a change in your situation.

Being more "laid back" is difficult, especially in words like you're going to have to do online, but that's O.K., my e-mail templates inside Chet's Online Dating System - do all the work for you, showing you ARE confident and humorous, but sensitive and caring, as well.

"I can do all kinds of shit from fine arts to playing an Irish Tin Whistle and good with hand tools... yes I went to college and graduated with honors. And, I am very good in the sack I've never had any disappointments and I have been with lots of women. It’s just I am so damn poor and work so damn much and my time is so damn limited.

I have several ads on at least three dating sites but really can't afford to subscribe to every one of them. I have tweaked them and up dated photos....going to start carrying my digital camera around from now on.

My ideal woman, I really am looking for one that is in shape looks good in jeans, likes rock to Beethoven and doesn't mind me picking her up in a pick up truck. Hopefully she can complete a full sentence but the best thing is a sense of humor....she better have one.

How you can help me best is how to handle my limited time....I need plug and play modules that I can adjust for my own personality. I just need to learn nuances of the email things, how to adapt and get the phone number."

With all your experiences and in your situation, you are literally the PERFECT guy who can get the very MOST out my online dating system.

Here’s why:

The biggest benefits are...

Time Savings - it shows you how to eliminate time-wasters and women who you will ultimately have NO chemistry with, and how to show only the best of what you have to offer.

Muney Savings - I'll tell you the ONLY dating sites you should work with, and I even have a separate module on how to use your digital photos to best position yourself and make yourself MOST appealing (I even tell you exactly WHAT kinds of pictures you should post online!)

Plug And Play E-mail Templates - I have 25 of them in the Find Your Soulmate System - and all you need to do is make them customized for you.

Ideal Women - Look, this may be the MOST important thing of all. Spending time with women you don't really want, is incredibly frustrating. I give you your OWN personal dating website and show you how to use it to attract EXACTLY the kinds of women you want, ONLY, and how to separate yourself head-and-shoulders beyond all the rest of the guys chasing them down, that are out there.

It's almost like my online dating system was designed for you, but don't believe me, try it out yourself. Plus, with a muney back trial period, what's holding you back?

The only thing that could be holding you back is your fear of success, and I even talk about having a success mindset inside the online dating system, so I've got you covered there as well.

Thanks for writing in, and...

Now go find the woman of your dreams,

Chet Rowland, The Chetinator
Creator of Chet's "Automatic" Online Dating System
The World's First Sexual Attraction System For Men