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Don't Be "El-Cheapo"

Here's the second part of this e-mail I received from one of my subscribers:

"I am thinking if this kind of email only works with women in 30s...The ones I've been emailing are from 18 to 21 age group since I am in college. I don't go to like match.com or anything. There's a website called facebook where you can meet people who goes to your school and other schools also.I want to write a perfect e-mail to send it to college girls and get a response back."

O.K., let's get down to the nitty-gritty here: First, don't be a cheapskate and use freebie websites like "facebook" or any other site like that. That's the "El Cheapo" route, and in life, you really DO get what you pay for.

That's why, it's no coincidence Chet's Online Dating System is the most EXPENSIVE one out there. It's expensive for one reason:

IT WORKS!

And when it comes down to it, it works like nothing you've EVER seen. And most people would pay TEM TIMES what my online dating system costs to get their hands on a online dating system that actually works, wouldn't you?

And you DO want something that works, don't you?

El Cheapo products give you El Cheapo results -- after all, nothing ventured... nothing lost.

I'd prefer to give you MORE than what you want, and fulfill every one of your wildest fantasies beyond what you've ever thought was possible.

Second, you should broaden your horizons beyond "college girls". There are thousands of women online who would LOVE to get their hands on a sharp college-aged fellow who can stimulate their mind.

Why shouldn't YOU be that one young man?

"Do you think you could help me do that? I wrote this non-cocky or funny version and I got no response out of that either. Could you revise this so I would get a lot more responses from girls? Thank you so much."

I'll do something BETTER than that: If you order my "Find Your Soulmate" system - I'll give you TWENTY-FIVE different proven e-mail letters I've used, to attract literally HUNDREDS of women, including my "I Get The Sense" Letter.

And there's such a variety of good letters in there, you'll end up finding several e-mails you'll wind up making your own "old reliables."

"I have two versions.

Hey (name). I was looking at random people's profile and I read yours. Well, first of all, I think you are gorgeous, but you probably know that. You seem pretty interesting from your profile. I watch family guy and the OC too. .I watch Laguana beach every once in a while. You are really good at Xbox?

That's probably last thing I would've thought just by looking at you. I guess that's why you never stereotype people. I really liked remember the titans, wedding crashers and super troopers...Have you seen friday night lights? I think it's similar to remember the titans. Anyway, are you having a good time in AU? What have you been up to lately? Send me a message if you want to talk sometime. It would be cool to talk to you. Talk to you soon hopefully."

Look, I can appreciate what you're trying to do here, but you are on a fast road to nowhere if you keep on going down this path.

When you say "I think you are gorgeous", she hears "this guy is a desperate pervert." Find something more interesting to talk about besides her looks, video games and television shows. This doesn't sound like a college conversation, it sounds like something my friend's youngest son MIGHT talk about, and he's 14.

And telling her "you seem pretty interesting" is very vauge and common. You might as well ask her "What's the weather like over in Arizona nowadays?"

Are you getting what I mean here?

Then, "Send me a message if you want to talk sometime. It would be cool to talk to you. Talk to you soon hopefully."

Wow, what an offer that is -- who can resist that one? Again, you're coming across as very needy here, especially when you say "hopefully" - you sound very desperate.

Sorry to be so rough on you, but I'm saying this so you'll understand where I'm coming from and what you REALLY need to do, to change your life forever! Listen, if you don't want to sound as interesting as a commercial for the local accountant in your neighborhood, then be bold and get her involved!

Be compelling and arouse her imagination and her curiosity -- make her feel THRILLED to be hearing from you.

This is what the e-mails I give you inside my online dating system - and combined with your dating website you get, THAT'S the reason why the most common response I get after I speak to a woman online, is WOW, and the same thing is going to happen to you.

I paint her a picture of fun, excitement and adventure, and using my e-mail templates, you can do the exact same thing.

So get on it, get my online dating system.

Now go find the woman of your dreams,

Chet Rowland, The Chetinator
Creator of Chet's "Automatic" Online Dating System
The World's First Sexual Attraction System For Men


Contact Chet: 813-451-6466 Email Chet: chetspest @ gmail . com