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Dating Tips for Men
How To Eliminate Negative Feelings About Women!
Last time we took a look at the first part of the "Wannabe" Romantic's e-mail message he sent in.
Today we'll look at the rest of his letter and see how I can help resolve some of his problems with women, and at the same time, help him recognize some of the behaviors he has that are holding him back from living his life to the fullest!
Perhaps you can relate to some of these things too.
Here we go:
"About the only successes I've had with fee males is when I was in the military & years ago when I danced country-western. Military because I met & ate with WAF's at the chow hall at tech training where there were young ladies fresh away from home and who were fresh to military. Country-western dancing where ladies like a good leader to dance WITH. Dancing together great sex connection. Country-western has largely phased out."
Listen, country dancing hasn't been "phased out" any more than pickup trucks have been "phased out". You want to go country dancing? You just have to go and find out where the country-western clubs are, just the same way if you were into jazz... or if you liked going to the opera.
Like I told you last time, it's just a matter of you getting up off your ass, believing in yourself, and then taking action!
"I've traveled to 3 Asian countries strictly for ladies. I found 'em & they are affordable there but it's all about money. But they really are different whores as they usually really try to please U all nite."
To be honest, I'm a little confused.
First of all, if all you want to do is be with whores, then call me nuts, but aren't you living in the PERFECT place for that in Vegas?
Plus, there are a few disturbing issues here that keep coming back, and they're all hurting you.
Why are you so stingy with yourself?
I mean, just think this through for a minute. You're too cheap to get the whores in Vegas but you want to fly to the orient to get them?
Are you flying there for free or something?
By the time you spend all that money flying over there, not to mention all that TIME...and the effort... why wouldn't you just go around the corner?
Second, if the only women you hang out with are whores, then perhaps you're looking at EVERY woman out there like a whore.
Don't do that -- you're not being fair to anyone here, including yourself. That's like women I meet who tell me they just got out of a bad relationship so they're fearful that ALL men are bad.
One thing you can try and do is to stop thinking of women as "women" and start thinking of them as your friends.
Here's what I mean: If you were going out to dinner with your buddy, you'd probably buy him a drink, and maybe even dinner as well, right?
Well, why don't you try and start looking at women the same way?
Like they're your buddies or something like that.
This way, the pressure's off and it's all about having fun instead.
That's not so tough, is it?
I don't presume to know why you have these issues with money and women... but I do know this: Regardless of what's happened or what events occurred in the past, you DO have a choice about what your attitude is like now, and how you react to things TODAY.
Look, I grew up with no running water in my house -- if I'd have kept that scarcity mentality and "poverty" mindset, I wouldn't ever have had the courage to take the risks I've taken and I damn sure wouldn't own all the condos on the beach and my lakefront home either.
The past is the past -- if you're still living in it, you have no one to blame but yourself, and you have no one to continue disappointing but yourself.
"Biggest challenges & obstacles: belief that women are mostly ALL about money & them ALL seeking a man to pay their way. And my personal feelings of inferiority.
Perfect world: meeting spontaneously & sharing activities. Thru doing things together, we love each other & she doesn't cost me an arm & a leg.
Most important thing: to find a lover. To romantically associate with attractive women who are not all looking for financial support."
I'm going to close this one out by saying you've GOT to work on changing those inferior feelings. And getting your hands on my online dating system once it comes out, and skipping through loads of failure and time wasted will be the fastest and easiest way to do this.
And then, realize that the ONLY way to start feeling better about yourself is by taking the plunge! Sure you'll experience a few failures, but you'll also start experiencing some success as well!
Until you do that, being spontaneous isn't going to come easy for someone like you, because you've built too many walls around yourself.
Good luck, and don't forget to TAKE MASSIVE ACTION!
And one of the EASIEST ways to start feeling better about yourself AND taking massive action, is by using my "Automatic" Online Dating System to attract more women to you than flies to an open watermelon on a summer Sunday picnic.
Keep your eyes opened, because it's going to be available VERY soon.
And just like that big juicy watermelon -- maybe for the first time in your life -- YOU'LL be the prize women will come looking for, NOT the other way around.
Now go find the woman of your dreams,
Chet Rowland, The Chetinator
Creator of Chet's "Automatic" Online Dating System
The World's First Sexual Attraction System For Men
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