Dating Tips for Men

Read This Only If You're A GREAT Kisser

We've been going over an e-mail I received from a woman who is REALLY trying to qualify herself, as a candidate I should consider, and we'll check out the final part of the e-mail she sent me, today.

If you remember, a while ago we looked at the part of her message that said:

"I am looking for someone to cherish me as I will cherish him and his love. I am looking for someone that won't run out at the first sign of trouble, but will be willing to work through things, someone that will be there when the going gets rough, and will love me through the bad times as well as the good times. Someone I can share my shoulder with when he needs it, and for his to be there when I need it. Life is full of ups and downs, no matter how hard we try to make them all ups, there will always be downs that creep in. I want someone that will stand with me through thick and thin. I am not a quitter and I don't want him to be either."

Again, this was my first e-mail from her, and the good news is, there's nothing special about it, in the sense that it's VERY typical of the kinds of response you get from my online dating system.

So let's check out the last part of her message now, and see if you can pick up a few ideas here:

"If he [the man of my dreams] is not a GREAT kisser, that's ok with me. Not that I don't like kissing, I love it, but because I am so good at it, that I will be happy to teach him. But something tells me you don't need help in this area. I understand a lot of people have problems with public affection, but this is not one of my downfalls."

Again, what's CRITICAL to keep in mind here, is that I have literally NEVER ever spoken a word to this woman -- either in person, or via e-mail.

Yet, just by reading through my website, she already knows I'm a sexual guy who's very open and affectionate, and she's letting me know she likes this, and she's the same way. And let's face it, this is VERY important information women need to know.

True?

After all, if this is what you're like, the LAST thing you want is a woman being attracted to you, who DOESN'T like these characteristics in a man, right?

What I'd probably say back to her is something like, "Actually, I just got back from the world's greatest kissing contest and guess who won?"

Here's some more of her e-mail:

"Which brings us back to communication. NUMBER 1 thing needed in a thriving relationship. Kissing, hugging, snuggling, cuddling follows a close second. If he truly is Mr Right, he will only bring out the best in me and I will bring out the best in him. I am not out here trying to play games. I am truly in search of that very special man so that I can become that very special lady in his life. I am not looking to smother him, I understand he has had a whole life before me, and I will respect his time to himself or with his friends. I am only looking to love and be loved in the rarest form. To find that love, that very few ever truly experience. That's what I want. Is it too much to hope for? I think not! I know without question that he is out there searching for me also. Could that knight be you! Could you be my special prince? Could I be your princess? I think we owe it to our hopes and dreams to find out. I am ready to embark on this wonderful journey, I hope you are too! Call me at XXX-XXX-XXXX and let's not put this off any longer. I look forward to see-sawing with you. Oh, and I assure you, I can hold my own. And Yes, Chet, I can keep up."

There you go -- now you see why I think differently, and how far removed from the normal guy, my mindset is?

When you have hundreds of messages, just like this one -- with phone numbers... dirty talk... and sexual innuendos -- literally all sitting there and waiting for you, a world of female "abundance" becomes your norm, instead of the exception.

Look at this P.S. she closes out with:

"P.S. Just so you know, I too know how to prime a hand pump from a well, and use an outhouse. I also grew up on a farm with no running water and believe it or not, I can still milk a cow. Just a tidbit of information I thought you might like to know. Hope you are smiling and I certainly hope to hear from you soon. Bye for now. (Name Withheld)

P.S.S. Thank you for writing me such a beautiful letter on your sight. I loved it..."

AWESOME! And what's funny is, this woman thinks I put my site together, just for her! This is a little sales copy trick I learned how to do from studying my direct-marketing all these years, and it's inside my online dating system, and when women go to your website they will have the EXACT same experience, and you'll have the exact same results.

Plus, you can see, throughout her letter, how she's trying to qualify herself by showing me the things we have in common, and by letting me know how interested she is -- how much she'll spoil me with affection and sex... how she's not interested in taking away any of my independence... and how we'll have a bunch of exciting adventures together.

Sound exciting, right?

Well, believe me... it is.

Now go find the woman of your dreams,

Chet Rowland, The Chetinator
Creator of Chet's "Automatic" Online Dating System
The World's First Sexual Attraction System For Men