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Dating Tips for Men
Oddly Enough, This Is VERY Hard For Most Guys...
Here's something that's difficult for a lot of guys. We covered this on last month's Romantic Heroes Coaching call, and it has to do with "who" you're acting like when you're speaking to a woman, whether it's online or offline and in person.
The most difficult thing I try and get through to your head is to always be yourself. Sounds simple, but for MANY reasons, most of them having to do with insecurity and bad programming from prior experiences from people who were in your life, nearly all guys have problems simply being themselves whenever they're around a woman.
Don't act brash or macho or try and be funny, if you're nothing like this at all. When you do this, even if you are somehow "successful" at it, meaning even if you DO get a woman interested in you, she's really interested in someone "else" - the someone you were "pretending" to be.
Look, there is someone out there for EVERY guy, I don't care who you are or what kind of personality "quirks" you may have (within reason, of course).
The biggest challenge I have is getting you to BELIEVE you're O.K. just the way you are. And what you've got to realize is that women have these same insecurities -- regardless of WHAT they look like.
You know, I'm involved in many different business groups, made up of people from literally all over the country. And the most common question I get is, "Chet, how are you so comfortable being Chet?"
When I meet someone new - male or female - I always act like I've known a person my whole life, and I want you to do the same thing. Act like you've known someone your whole life, and let them know up-front you want them to do the same thing. Put her "at ease" so when the two of you are speaking, you don't have to live by the rules of conventional wisdom that say "take it slow."
In fact, one of the things you learn about success is that being able to make fast decisions and then act quickly on them, allows you to take advantage of many opportunities that come your way, and it's the same thing with women.
I'll be discussing more about this each month in The Romantic Hero monthly newsletter, which you should be reading from cover-to-cover when you get your monthly Romantic Hero package.
Stay on top of your "mental" game and keep focusing on your goals you wrote down on your goal sheet (again, this is included when you buy my online dating system) and things WILL come around soon.
Remember, Confucius said "A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step."
So even though this may seem difficult, rest assured, you are on your way.
Now go find the woman of your dreams,
Chet Rowland, The Chetinator
Creator of Chet's "Automatic" Online Dating System
The World's First Sexual Attraction System For Men
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