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Dating Tips for Men
"Has This Ever Happened To You"
This morning I was on my way to the gym for my daily workout and a car pulled out in front of me.
Then the driver pulled out into the on coming traffic and blocked the lane closes to his side of the street.
As I followed this dare devil, he ran a stop sign and then a red light.
All without any hesitation, whatsoever.
I'm wondering, what is going through his head to make him act like this?
On the way home from the gym, I had another guy tailgating me for a couple of miles.
Since it's a curvy road with double yellow lines and has a 25 miles per hour speed limit he didn't try to pass me.
Once we made it to the stop sign where he was the forth car back, he came around all of us driving in the grass and ran that stop sign.
It got me to thinking how some men will take crazy chances, each and everyday of their lives. Yet when it comes to meeting a potential lover they just sit back and do nothing.
Why is it when a man gets behind the wheel of his car he is comfortable taking all kinds of risks that can kill him and others.
Without hesitation he'll just decide instantly to... GO FOR IT.
No thought of failure or what if he doesn't make it.
Yet there is also the very conservative driver. You know the guy who sits at a stop sign and won't go if another car is within sight.
He could easily make a turn but he just sits and waits and waits. It's very frustrating sitting behind a driver like this, isn't it?
You sit there waiting for your turn and watch the same situation he's looking at and say ...go for it... now.
But noooo!
He waits and waits and waits.
After a while you're thinking "you ass hole, you could have gone five times already".
What are you waiting for?
Finally, he'll putt around the corner and when you pull up for your chance to turn... you do so, instantly.
What is the difference between these two type of drivers?
One is making all kinds of irrational moves, while the other is looking at numerous opportunities and afraid to go for it.
You don't want to just throw all caution to the wind but you don't want to let your opportunity pass you by either, do you?
Not only do you miss out but you cause others to miss out also.
It all comes down to having confidence and being where you are supposed to be mentally.
Not thinking about how you screwed up and are going to be late.
Not thinking about all the B.S. you got going on in your life.
What you should be doing is focusing on the moment and how you can make things turn out the way they are suppose to.
You learn to create your ideal reality.
If the reckless driver had done better planning and time management he wouldn't need to take reckless risks.
If the driver who's daydreaming about stuff that doesn't really matter, at the time he's going somewhere, he'd get there faster.
It's the same way with finding the love of your life.
Here's why...
If you go about finding the woman of your dreams in an unplanned reckless manor, you won't get the results you want.
You'll feel anger and frustration.
You'll be pissed off at the world and it will show to everyone by your attitude.
If and when you're finally with a woman, she will sense your anger, frustration and lack of confidence.
You don't want that to happen, do you?
I didn't think so!
If you're not focused on what you should be focusing on, you'll drift about aimlessly.
You'll give up all hope of getting what you want, need or desire.
That's why I created Chet's Online Dating System for you.
So that you can put an end to ALL your frustrations of trying to find a woman for yourself.
That's what you want, isn't it?
You'll now have a step by step plan of how to spend your valuable time and not be wasting it.
You'll know what to say and when to say it.
All the clutter that usually goes on in your head will be completely gone.
You'll feel the exhilaration of having a complete and through mental enema.
You'll now find yourself saying all the right things without even having to think about it.
It will be ingrained into your subconscious mind.
You'll always be on automatic pilot.
You'll be a very playful and fun guy to be around.
You'll get the confidence you need to go for it with Chet's Online Dating System and know you'll be successful in your pursuit of finding a woman to share your life with.
You'll instantly find yourself being comfortable knowing, you now have the skills and tools to get a woman whenever you make your move.
For the rest of your life!
Think about it.
With this new found set of tools, your confidence will soar as you start to have one positive experience after another.
With each passing day, you'll become more and more confident, just like you are when you're driving your car somewhere.
Hesitation will be a thing of the past.
The new voice you'll be hearing in your head will say... "go for it". You can make it happen. Let's make this fun. She's going to love being with me.
And you will.
Over and over, again.
Just like pulling out into traffic, you'll know when you should go for it and when to be patient and wait.
I'm getting ready to record a conversation with a woman I've never talked to before.
She replied to my profile first, as women often do.
Want to know what happened?
I replied back to just one email and one instant message she sent me.
No long drawn out back and forth chatter.
I don't play that game and neither should you.
The results are... she has sent me her phone number and a nude picture standing in the shower smiling at me.
This is the world I live in each and everyday of my life.
Are you ready to make it yours?
Now go find the woman of your dreams,
Chet Rowland, The Chetinator
Creator of Chet's "Automatic" Online Dating System
The World's First Sexual Attraction System For Men
P.S. If you want to learn how to communicate with women like I do, go to Chet's Online Dating System and become a member of my Romantic Hero's coaching group right now. It will change your life beyond your wildest imagination!
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