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Dating Tips for Men
Why You Must ALWAYS… Have… A Backup Plan.
One of the most important things you need to remember about hooking up with women is the old adage about selling, that says something like, "If you throw enough stuff up against the wall, something's going to stick."
Here's what I mean by that: Let's say you were a salesman, and you made your living on commissions, based 100% on how much you sold. Would you go out and start speaking to a few prospects, and after meeting the first one who told you they were "interested", then STOP calling on prospects altogether?
Of course not, right?
Because what would happen if that particular prospect, for ANY one of a million and a half different reasons, all of a sudden changed their mind about buying?
You'd be shit out-of-luck, right?
You want to keep knocking on as many doors as possible, getting as many "yes" and "maybe" answers as possible, since each of them is increasing your chances of making as much money as possible, right?
Well, it's the same way with women.
A lot of guys I meet tell me they got so involved speaking with one woman, and then what happens is, if she bails out on you, you've wasted all that time talking to her, without having any kind of a "backup" plan.
Look, believe it or not, I am VERY faithful to a woman when I'm in a relationship with her.
But the key word here is "relationship". And unless you're living in la-la land, or have mental problems, a "relationship" doesn't begin until you've BOTH actually decided you're in a relationship together.
Talking online is NOT having a relationship… talking on the phone to a woman is NOT a relationship… and even going out on a date isn't a relationship until you both agree it's one.
Here, let me tell you a little story to illustrate exactly WHY it's important to have a back-up plan.
A few years ago I was going out to Vegas for a business meeting.
I met a woman online before I left Tampa, and we planned on hooking up when I got out there. As a matter-of-fact, the game-plan was, she was supposed to be picking me up at the airport, and then we were going to spend the evening together - I had a room over at Caesar's Palace.
Well it turns out, the night before my flight was leaving, she left a message for me telling me she couldn't make it, because of some excuse or another that doesn't really matter.
Now I wasn't upset about this, because she and I weren't in a "relationship" - for Christ sake, I didn't even know the first thing about her, outside of what we discussed on the phone once or twice.
But… as usual, I DID have a backup plan thanks to the simplicity of my online dating system.
See, I had been speaking to several different women in Vegas, in anticipation of my trip out there, so… all I did was fire up my computer, hop online, log on to the dating site where I had been speaking to these women, and I told one of the other women I was talking to, that my plans had changed and I was now going to be out in Vegas the next day, and if she wanted to hook up, she'd have to take advantage of the time we had together at this last-minute notice, or else we couldn't meet.
And what happened out in Vegas?
Oh, only 3 days of intense sex and love-making with a stunningly beautiful stewardess I would NEVER have had the opportunity to have fun with, if… I didn't have a backup plan.
Remember, just the same way salesmen who have few prospects to speak to, generally go hungry, men who only have a few women to speak to, are generally lonely.
ALWAYS… have… a backup plan and it'll pay off for you in spades.
The love of your life may even BE one of your "backups", but you'll never know... if you don't have one.
Now go find the woman of your dreams,
Chet Rowland, The Chetinator
Creator of Chet's "Automatic" Online Dating System
The World's First Sexual Attraction System For Men
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