Dating Tips for Men

Don't Fall In Love With Her Potential

Love is a funny thing.

You never know what qualities you're going to be attracted to, in any particular woman, that will make you fall in love with her.

Sometimes in fact, the things you ARE attracted to, are the personality characteristics you'd have least likely thought would appeal to you.

One thing you have to watch out for and be careful of, is that you're not falling in love (or even falling in heavy "like" with), her "potential".

See, although in some ways, intimate relationships do have "some" things in common with certain business relationships, they are NOT like business relationships you might have with your employees.

Meaning, you CAN hire an employee because of their potential, and then bring that potential out of them, but getting involved with a woman because of her potential, is usually one nightmare of an exercise in frustration.

In fact, for most men, hooking up with a woman's "potential" is one of the biggest wastes of time you'll ever go through.

And here's why: Bluntly, when it comes to "turning women around", you simply can NOT make a silk purse, out of a sow's ear.

You know what I mean?

Getting someone to "change," is about as hard as moving a mountain a few inches over to the left.

The ONLY way someone's going to change is if they want to change.

And although it seems like trying to help someone is a noble cause, in reality, it's the cause of more breakups and divorces than you'll ever imagine.

You'll notice, in Chet's Online Dating System, I never EVER mention something about "if you THINK you can help her, then go after her."

The reason why is because the whole purpose of you getting involved with someone is for the two of you to SHARE your lives together.

And although part of this definitely means helping one another grow, there are enough quality women out there that are independent and fully functional, that you don't need to go out and take on a bunch of problems, "hoping" that once your mission is over, you'll have a "perfect model".

All that's going to do is set you back -- maybe even several years of time. And this simply isn't worth missing out on all the fun and excitement you can be having, right NOW, especially with the kinds of fun-filled experiences you're going to have using Chet's Online Dating System

And that IS what you want, right?

Now go find the woman of your dreams,

Chet Rowland, The Chetinator
Creator of Chet's "Automatic" Online Dating System
The World's First Sexual Attraction System For Men