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Dating Tips for Men
THIS... Is How You NEVER Want To Act
I want to talk about an e-mail I recently received. I showed it to a friend of mine and he was absolutely irate over it. In fact, since he's a pretty sharp business-person, I'll let him tell you himself. First, here's the e-mail:
"Hey Chet, very interested in your online dating program BUT!!!! I've been scammed before by XXX's [internet dating guru] buddies. Check out www.NAME OF WEBSITE.com [I'll keep this confidential.]
What a crock of shit I do better on my own then using his system, and try to get your money back, well it's like trying to pull teeth from a great white shark lol.
I'll give you a counter offer - I'll give you 500.00 for your whole program and you give me 60 days. If it works like you say it does, I'll pay you the other half, it'll be more than worth it to me. If it's crap then you give me a full refund no questions asked.
I'm a good looking outgoing guy but I always get trapped in suffocating relationships and end up losing a year or two of my life. Looking to meet more women so I can avoid this. I'm a very busy man and have many self interests too.
Thought internet dating would be perfect for me. Let me know what you think. If your program is soooo good this should be no problem. Thank you Chet" [I'll withhold his name as well] Tucson, AZ"
And now I'm going to kill two birds with one stone by letting my friend Craig respond to this. First off, he'll feel better unloading and getting this stuff off his chest, and second of all, what he has to say is VERY insightful and important for you to know. Here goes:
"Chet, tell this guy that first off, this isn't e-bay, and your prices aren't any more negotiable than the government tax rates set by the IRS.
Plus, he's using flawed logic. You're already carrying all the risk on your back by freely offering a 100% refund, why is it you should be forced to live up to your end of the deal but he shouldn't be held to the same standards by paying full price?
I just don't get it?
You are the REAL DEAL when it comes to online dating -- I've seen it myself. I've BEEN in your house MANY occasions and heard you speaking to women. For goodness sakes -- how about that time we were supposed to be going out for a few drinks when I spent that weekend at your condo out on Clearwater Beach, and you wound up talking to that gal from Boca for 2 FREAKIN' HOURS and we BARELY even made it out in time to grab dinner.
And with that smirk you had plastered across your face the entire time you were talking, I figured you guys were practically having phone sex for cryin' out loud!
And while I don't pretend to know all the dating "gurus" out there and what they're selling, I DO know your products are TOP of the line and they tell you not only WHAT to do, but HOW to do it, and that alone, is worth its weight in gold.
And frankly, that's why you're charging a premium for them -- you're no different than the cardiologist everyone wants doing their quadruple by-passes, or the best lawyer in town you only PRAY your ex-wife doesn't hire!
There's a reason why experts in a specialty field can get a premium for what they do, and that's the (very smart) reason why your products cost more:
Because They're Worth It!
This nitwit should think about VALUE, not cost. After all, which cardiologist would you want operating on you, to try and keep you alive against all odds for another 10 years? The one who's willing to give his services away for half-price, or the guy who commands top-dollar because he's consistently delivering?
I don't know how this guy feels, but when it comes to VALUE, I'd beg, borrow and steal if I had to, to get what I deserved, rather than nickel-and-diming everything and going from one crappy "deal" (if you can call it that) to another, and STILL having nothing to show for it, in the end. Which, by this guy's own admission, he's done over-and-over again.
That's what happens when you settle for some half-assed "cheap" product, just the same way your relationship goes south when you settle for a half-assed woman.
And while we're on THAT subject, let's talk about old tightwad's relationships with women. He says he's very busy man and has many self interests too, but I think he means he's a very busy man with a lot of SELFISH interests.
See, he doesn't like the fact that he gets involved in relationships that tend to "suffocate" him, but then why does he STAY in them "for a year or two"? And at the same time, if he doesn't LIKE being suffocated, why is he so aggressive in trying to suffocate you and your business for his lousy order.
What, does he think you're not going to be able to cover your mortgage payment this month unless he blesses you with an order?
It's no wonder he can't find an abundance of women - he doesn't have an abundance mindset.
Chet, if I were you I'd BAN this guy from your list forever and I would NOT let him order your product because he is just going to be one HUGE pain in the ass perpetual complainer who is NEVER satisfied unless he gets something for nothing, which... he appears to be very good at doing himself.
And lastly, let's be for real here: Just because OTHER people have ripped this guy off by giving him BAD products and providing ZERO service (supposedly), does he really believe every single HONEST and HARD-WORKING business-owner out there, now has to go and make up for it?
What does this guy do for a living, Chet? He's GOT to be a lawyer.
Hmmm... let's see. Using this logic, I think every one of your subscribers is probably owed at LEAST one free auto-mechanics servicing... some free financial advice... and of course, free legal services coming to them as well.
All I want to know is, where do I line up to get all this free stuff? 'Nuff said."
Well, I gotta hand it to him, he's got some valid points here.
Look, when I made Chet's Online Dating System, I created it so you'd have MORE value than you were expecting.
I OVER-deliver on everything I do, and to be candid, that's one of the reasons why I'm so successful with women.
What do you think about all this?
Now go find the woman of your dreams,
Chet Rowland, The Chetinator
Creator of Chet's "Automatic" Online Dating System
The World's First Sexual Attraction System For Men
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