Dating Tips for Men

3 Ways To Improve Your Ability To Communicate With Your Partner

One of the nastiest issues that tears all relationships apart isn't stress, it's the couple's inability to deal with stress.

And usually, this inability to deal with stress is seen most, when you're arguing with one another.

So here are three ways to deal with stress -- any kind of stress, whether financial, family, or whatever -- more effectively. Doing this just MAY save your relationship.

One: Don't make blanket generalizations when you're having a disagreement.

First of all, when people are upset, they can't listen as clearly as they normally can, and they're usually a lot more sensitive.

So saying something like "Why can't I trust you when you go out?" is a lot more difficult to handle than saying something like "I wish you didn't speak to other women when we go out."

Specific is ALWAYS better to understand and deal with -- for both of you.

Two: Just deal with one issue per argument.

Listen, it's tough enough to get along sometimes, what with all the nonsense in the world we all have going on, all the time. And the LAST thing you want, is to try and solve multiple issues at once -- it just isn't going to happen.

So stick to ONE topic per argument... iron things out... and THEN move on to the next issue.

This is also a good lesson in why it's so important to deal with things when they come up, rather than letting them fester and then having a multitude of problems to try and sort through, all at once, especially when both of you are "on edge".

Three: Speak in terms of "I", and not "You." When you do this, it's a lot easier for your partner to "hear" what you're saying and understand how you're feeling about it.

For instance, saying "You're so irresponsible," is a LOT less effective than saying "I'm afraid we're going to run out of money because you bought that car."

Make sense?

Good, because improving your communication skills, and your ability to handle and resolve conflicts will go far for you, both in your relationship with women, and in your relationships outside of your romantic circle as well.

And remember, the only thing tougher than communicating in person, is communicating in print. That's why I created all the e-mail templates for you to use in Chet's Online Dating System - this way, all you need to do is click and enter, and you can leave ALL the hard work... up... to me.

Now go find the woman of your dreams,

Chet Rowland, The Chetinator
Creator of Chet's "Automatic" Online Dating System
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