|
|
|||||
|
|
Dating Tips for Men
Less Accessibility Increases Desire
This morning I woke up and found this in my inbox:
'dear chet,
to begin with, i am usually the too much to handle part of the man/woman thing--not because of anything negative but because of all the positives: unpretentious but have substantial resume, naturally good looking/size 4/wear string bikinis --does not sit well with executive country club crowd, very kind hearted and care about others--narcissistic types are very uncomfortable about this, can fix pretty much anything-men get annoyed when i take out my tool box and do plumbing and electrical, get along with people from all classes and cultures which most executives cannot/will not do at all.
i also am a product designer/developer and anti-aging specialist who has developed certain formulations that work very well--and unlike everyone else out there with their products, i actually look fantastic because of my formulas.
i am looking to connect with a man who is similar to me and also wants an enhanced state of being because of a great relationship.
do you still want my fotos?
regards,'
I wanted to break her response down for you, so you can understand a few things about online dating and attraction in general.
First, as you can see, she's trying to qualify based on some information I gave her in my 'I Get The Sense' first e-mail letter I sent.
And by-the-way, this letter is included at no extra charge, when you order the 'Find Your Soulmate' System.
She's trying to show me only her BEST qualities, and she's jumping through hoops to make SURE she's going to get through the walls I put up.
See, unlike most guys, I go out of my way to make myself LESS accessible than a woman would like. This increases her desire for you.
After all, you always want something MORE, if you can’t have it so easily, right?
But how do you increase a woman’s desire, without coming off like a snob, or without being so “transparent” about what you’re doing?
The answer lies in the words you use, and the emotional experience you’re giving them in your correspondence.
And this is the beauty of the e-mail templates I’ve included inside Chet's Online Dating System - they give a woman the EXACT experience she’s CRAVING, and that’s why she feels so compelled to respond after you send them to her.
You can see how this is VERY different from most guys, who do the opposite - CHASE a woman down and be very aggressive in their “pursuit” of her.
Most guys are pre-occupied with trying to show the woman how good they are, hoping and praying they'll get the nod or a preliminary 'O.K.'
This is insane.
Why would you EVER want to do something like this?
See, when you KNOW you're the prize, like I do, and MOST important, when you have the ability to communicate this to them, like I do in my e-mail templates, a woman simply has to show you she’s worth YOUR time.
And isn't that a MUCH better position to be in?
Lastly, I just want to point out how, where most guys are telling you they 'can't' get women to send them photos, I've got women HOPING I'll still WANT their photos.
And believe me, I get them in droves.
Obviously I can't show you them for confidentiality reasons, but ALL of 'em send me either completely naked photos, or at LEAST at a minimum, pictures of themselves in bikinis or lingerie or even just a bra and panties for the gals who don't have that much of an imagination.
And the good news is, you too will be having a WILD abundance of women and photos to enjoy and experience as well, once you get Chet's Online Dating System up-and-running.
And believe me, once you experience this, you'll wonder why you've been wasting all your time even thinking about doing anything else before this.
So don't worry -- your love life is about to improve far beyond your wildest imagination, VERY soon, the moment you get your hands on Chet's Online Dating System.
Now go find the woman of your dreams,
Chet Rowland, The Chetinator
Creator of Chet's "Automatic" Online Dating System
The World's First Sexual Attraction System For Men
Copyright © and Trademark ™ 
All Rights Reserved