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Dating Tips for Men
Why Your Mind Goes 'Blank' And How To Fix It
Here's something I keep hearing, over and over again.
"Chet, I need more confidence. I'm successful at my job and when I look in the mirror at myself, I feel pretty good about what I see. But when I get in front of a woman, or when I finally get someone online at one of the dating sites to speak to me, my mind just goes completely "blank." What the hell is wrong with me?"
First of all, let me be the first one to tell you that the mere act of ordering my online dating system will NOT improve your confidence.
Some people may try and tell you otherwise about their products, but this is simply not true.
You see, REAL confidence, the kind that holds steadfast and true in your darkest hour and when you're under the MOST pressure, comes from one place, and it ain't online. It's a special school that only men with courage get to graduate from.
It's called the school of hard knocks.
It's true. The only way you're going to get confidence is by trying, and then by getting your butt kicked in the process.
See, whether or not you succeed or you fail, simply the mere act of "trying", or what I refer to as "being decisive and taking action", makes you feel like a champion.
Oddly enough, the simple act of taking action swells your confidence levels like a rising tide just before a thunderstorm.
There is no "instant confidence", just like there's no "instant charm and magnetism." If there was, believe me I'd have spent THOUSANDS and bought it years ago.
When I get up and speak to an audience, or when I'm putting a move on a women, people seem to feel I was born like that, or that it's some kind of talent I "rounded up" after reading a few books.
That's like saying you become a great NFL quarterback by "reading a few books", or by "tossing a few passes downfield."
Yeah, right.
You become a great quarterback by throwing THOUSANDS of passes and by running several thousand different plays.
And by the 25th play, you're twice as confident as your 1st play. By your 100th pass, you're ten times more accurate than your 25th pass.
That's how life works, and that's how it goes with attracting women.
What my online dating system does for you - is far GREATER than giving you "instant confidence."
It short-cuts your education in the school of hard knocks, dramatically, letting you skip right to the head of the class, avoiding all the stupid mistakes and failures, lesser educated students are routinely making and never knowing how to fix.
That's why most people never graduate from the school of hard knocks -- they wind up getting stuck somewhere in one of the lower grades, and they basically wind up staying there forever.
Sad, but very true.
And here's the other good news about confidence: It doesn't take very many brushes with success, or very long, for your confidence to grow, and to grow HUGE.
Within a month, things that scared the crap out of you today, will seem easy.
Within 6 months, you'll laugh thinking how you were actually scared or insecure about dealing with women. By this time, it'll be second-nature to you, just like breathing or dealing with one of your buddies.
And think about that. To go from where you are today, to TOTAL confidence in just 6 months or practice, doesn't sound unreasonable or even that difficult, when it comes down to it, right?
In a sense, Chet's Online Dating System short-cuts the time it takes you to go from being a rookie to a pro, because it gives you proven, game-tested advanced playbook secrets and tools, no one else has.
So march out there into the online dating field called the internet, and start running your plays and throwing your passes right now, and I promise you, you won't have to look for the "confidence" you need, it'll find you all on its own.
TAKE ACTION NOW!
Now go find the woman of your dreams,
Chet Rowland, The Chetinator
Creator of Chet's "Automatic" Online Dating System
The World's First Sexual Attraction System For Men
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