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Dating Tips for Men
How To Nail The 9’s and 10’s...
Over the next couple of days, we'll take a look at 2 excellent questions sent in by one of my subscribers, Dennis.
Dennis' situation is VERY common, so I thought you might get something out of it. Here's what he had to say:
"I'm recently divorced after 12 years or so with the same girl. I Need to get back into dating. I've joined a couple of internet sites, with some limited success in attracting girls. Have met a few girls, but none seem to strike my fancy. I meet them and there is no spark. Two areas I think I need help with:
1. Attracting "higher quality" girls - better looking - like 9s and 10s (of course), but also girls who are more fun to be with."
O.K. Dennis, that's a GREAT question.
Everybody I meet wants the 9's and 10's: after all they're smokin' hot and give you goosebumps just by looking at them.
But before I answer your question, you need to know that what I'm about to say. will definitely ruffle a few feathers and go against conventional wisdom, so if you're the kind of person who can't think "outside the box", then this answer isn't for you.
But if you're the kind of person who realizes that all breakthrough ideas COME from "outside the box" thinking...
Then...I just might change your life.
Ready? O.K., here goes: Dennis, if you wanted to become a great shooter in basketball, you wouldn't expect yourself to just go out there on Day One, and start nailing 80 to 90% of all your shots, now would you?
Not at all, right?
What you'd do, is go out there and practice your buttocks off, day-in... and day-out... morning, noon and night, until you got to the point were you had the confidence... the skills... and the experience, to know EXACTLY where to shoot from, regardless of WHO was guarding you, or what was going on, right?
Well, it's the same way with women.
What you should do, is focus on improving your game.
And you improve your game by getting in as much practice as possible.
And reality is, it's going to be a LOT easier practicing on 6's, 7's, and 8's, then it is to practice on 9's and 10's.
First off, there are a LOT more "lower number" girls... they're a LOT easier to get to...and if you screw up...SO WHAT?
It's like this: If you ran a business, would you rather have one, million-dollar account, or ten, $100,000 Dollar accounts?
See, if you have 10 accounts and you lose one of them... no big deal, right?
But if you only have ONE account and you screw up... then you're done!
Plus, the other thing is, there are a higher percentage of genuine "nicer" women in the 6 through 8 category, than there are in the 9 and 10 category. They're not as selfish because they haven't been spoiled all their lives, with men always doting over them.
And you know what?
I'd rather have a special woman who's a 7 or an 8 - one you enjoy spending every waking moment with -- than have some moody bitch who's so hot looking she's giving everyone ELSE wood, but who's such a bitch behind closed doors, you have to constantly be reminded of the price you're "paying" for those good looks.
Make sense?
Oh, and remember -- regardless of WHAT level woman you're trying to meet -- whether she's a 6... or even if she's off the charts...you'd better make a great first impression, or else your chances of getting even a handshake are close to "ZERO".
There's just too much competition out there for you, and your competition is RUTHLESS! And the best way to make an AMAZING first impression and blow ALL the competition away, is by checking out my newest DVD.
Now go find the woman of your dreams,
Chet Rowland, The Chetinator
Creator of Chet's "Automatic" Online Dating System
The World's First Sexual Attraction System For Men
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