Dating Tips for Men

"No Booty Call Here "

O.K., let's get right down to business today.

When you get my Find Your Soulmate system, you get to listen to FIVE recorded LIVE telephone conversations I had, with women I met online.

Most of the guys who I've gotten feedback from, have told me they've been able to adapt exactly what I said to women on the phone, and once they get comfortable with it -- which, like anything else you do, doesn't happen overnight -- but doesn't take forever, either... they're getting EXCELLENT results.

One particular call is with a lovely African American woman, and we got downright naughty with each other.

What I wanted to share with you is the e-mail that she sent me that led to our conversation on the phone. You'll see how each different part of Chet's Online Dating System, enhances the other parts, positioning YOU as the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow.

You get to especially see the unlimited value of having your own "do it for you" instant "plug in" website, and how powerful it can be, when you set it up the way I show you how.

Here goes:

"Hello Chet,

Wonderful name, by the way.

I loved your website, it shows a lot of character, insight, passion and so on.

Well, I suppose you would like to know a little more about me than what you read on my profile. Some have asked why MM site. I went on this site for two reasons. First, a male friend of mine suggested it to me as he is a member, thus, I am not looking for someone to rescue me, meal ticket etc. Second, I was hoping someone on this website may be a little more serious in their search as I am not just looking for casual fun either."

This is a SERIOUS woman looking for a serious relationship, as you can see, and THESE are the kinds of women who will respond to you once you get a website and eliminate the looky-loos and lesser mortals.

"I have had several men ask me what I am looking for in a relationship. I would come up with the typical generic answers. However, one evening I was home and it came to me. I want happy tears.

I want the tears of joy. Tears when I think about how fortunate and happy I am because someone loves me in a way that I have only dreamed of. I can feel there love even when they aren't around me and I blush because I catch myself smiling when I think of them. I want to find someone who looks into my eyes with such love that they don't have to tell me how they feel about me, but do so anyway.

I am very energetic, passionate, romantic, sensual, sexual, playful, loving, loyal and would like to meet someone like minded.

I am the youngest of six and like yourself the only one without family. My parents were married for 42 years until my dad passed 4 years ago. I love my family but I don't spend a lot of time with them. Quality verses quantity. When I was 19 I decided what type of woman I should be to be this perfect woman for the man I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. I believe I have molded the inner spirit to be just that and I take care of my body, eat healthy most of the time. I preferably shop for organic food. Not a huge meat eater but love sushi, seafood, fine dining and a good wine."

See how much information she's going to reveal to you once she see's what you're spilling the beans about, and when you're open and honest with who you are and what you're looking for out of life and out of a woman?

Full disclosure is the key to your success here, and again... I show you exactly WHAT to say and what NOT to say, inside Chet's Online Dating System.

"I have let my desire for love be my downfall because it has always been my biggest desire in life. I felt that it didn't matter what I had if I didn't have love. I finally realized I can't let this stop me from being better than I am. I have worked as an administrator for an import export business for about 9 years. I decided it wasn't what I wanted being the free-spirit that I am.

I oddly fell into a DJ position at a conservative gentleman's (topless on stage only) club which was a nice break while trying to figure out what I wanted. Unfortunately, in deciding I would go back to school I was told they couldn't work around my schedule and I ended working the other side of the DJ booth. Not proud of it but it has given me the flexibility I needed to pursue other interest. I don't associate with anyone from there when the day is done because it's a job not a career and if something doesn't enhance my life there is no room for it in my life. On a good note I am working on a project and I believe by February if not sooner this will be past tense. I just felt like you had a right to know but I truly hope you allow yourself to get to know me and you will certainly find this is no reflection of who I am other than someone who works hard and is not influenced by her setting.

I do not do any drugs. I am not a drunk nor am I promiscuous. However, my libido is off the charts so being with someone with an intense passionate sex drive is a must. There is no better turn on to me sharing intimacy while making eye contact...lights on please. I like to refer to myself as a square in a sexy body."

This is an OUTSTANDING quality woman you have here. She knows what she wants... she's confident enough in herself to tell you her story... and, she isn't afraid of sharing her strengths and weaknesses.

And you know why this is so attractive?

Simple. Because it's REAL. She's Real. She isn't trying to pretend to be someone she's not -- someone perfect and without flaws or wrinkles. Someone who...

DOESN'T FREAKING EXIST!

Think about it: we ALL have some skeletons in the closet. We've all made mistakes. Hiding them doesn't make you more attractive -- because then when you "pull back the curtain" you look like a fraud.

REVEALING these things about yourself is what makes you appealing, sets you apart from all the other doofuses who are trying to be "perfect".

THIS is how you want to set up your private website (that's included in Chet's Online Dating System, because it is VERY powerful as you can see, when you do it the right way.

Women will be THROWING themselves at you after seeing something like this, just the same way they throw themselves at me.

When you reveal exciting and intimate details of your life -- and "YES" they are exciting -- even though no one thinks what they have to say is exciting, but rest assured, as you can see from the e-mail we just looked at, these small details of your life, are actually what MAKE it exciting. Let's press on and finish the rest of her e-mail.

"I have not met someone's mother who hasn't loved me. I am a self-sustaining intellectual that can fit into and mingle with any business or charity environment. I believe I can offer someone the best of both worlds from a quiet casual conservative evening to a fun-filled, exciting, wild good times.

I am confident with where I am going in life and the quality of my character. I have been told that I am overly picky and that's why I am single, but I believe I am worth it. I am not asking for anything that I myself am not willing to give back in a relationship. Jack Nicholson put it best when he said, "you make me want to be a better man" (woman in my case, obviously).

I receive my greatest happiness making someone else happy. I don't have to be underneath someone 24/7 although I enjoy any time I spend with that special someone but I definitely enjoy pleasing, loving, and caring for someone special, best friend, lover, confidant, and support system.

I have included some photos for you. Hope to hear from you. You won't be disappointed."

Nice, huh?

Now is there anything at ALL about this message that is NOT appealing? Anything you wouldn't like to hear about?

No, there isn't. This is just a simple sincere message sent from a sincere woman looking for the love of her life.

Unfortunately for her, it wasn't me, but... it may VERY well be you.

Now go find the woman of your dreams,

Chet Rowland, The Chetinator
Creator of Chet's "Automatic" Online Dating System
The World's First Sexual Attraction System For Men