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Dating Tips for Men
No Fear!! What's Failure?
Here's an e-mail I received from someone who attended a dating seminar with me a while back, in Atlanta.
"I just wanted to thank everyone!! I believe I received much more than I paid for at the seminar...
Then there is the Chet-in-ator, let me tell you I should have paid the seminar fee all over again just for meeting him. This guy is a natural NLP monster, he does most of this stuff naturally. His business and marketing knowledge comes from first hand knowledge because he takes action on anything new he learns.
It was a real eye opener and mind set altering experience to be able to hang out, watch and learn how Chet does what he does so quickly, easily and naturally. Basically he determines what he wants, yet remaining open to any opportunities. Then he goes for it in a focused and confident manner, making sure he uses the knowledge he has gained from previous experiences.
If he has a creed it would probably be:
No Fear!! What's Failure?"
While I appreciate this e-mail, the truth is, what the creed really should be is "What's Fear?"
See, fear is all inside your own head.
It's usually some kinds of twisted thoughts you get about things you're either insecure about doing, or... things that are just outside of your comfort zone.
How do you handle fear?
Well, the easiest thing to do is to ignore it and realize that without fear, there is no courage.
See, the only way you get courage is by doing those things you ARE afraid of. And think about it, how else can you build your self-esteem up?
Doing things you're already good at, won't do it. And doing things that aren't important to you, won't do it, either.
The only way you're going to gain confidence is by not caring about fear. (Which, as I just said, is only inside your head anyway -- it's not like there's a "Fear" list or something, right?)
Once you understand this, you'll be ready to take on the world, and that's why inside Chet's Online Dating System - you're only going to find action steps, for men who ARE ready.
See, the biggest thing fear does to you, is prevent you from "taking action", which is the direct opposite of "being afraid".
Ironically, the more action you take, the smaller your fear becomes.
So, the very thing fear PREVENTS you from doing, is actually the only thing you CAN do, to actually eliminate your fear.
Strange how this works, isn't it?
So when you're ready to take action, join me, and the hundreds of other Romantic Heroes who have conquered their fears and stepped up to the big leagues and knocked FEAR right on its ass!
The choice is yours. I'm here whenever you're ready.
Now go find the woman of your dreams,
Chet Rowland, The Chetinator
Creator of Chet's "Automatic" Online Dating System
The World's First Sexual Attraction System For Men
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