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Dating Tips for Men
There Really Is No Free Lunch - Sorry, I Mean Dinner
A while ago I was talking to you about my famous chicken dinner story, and Chet's Cook Book, which you get in the Find Your Soulmate System
One thing you need to understand about what makes cooking dinner for your date such a powerful strategy, is the way you position it.
See, if you beg and plead with a woman, to come over your house for a home-cooked meal, then the strategies I show you, simply won't work.
Otherwise, it's like begging and pleading with your boss for him to let you perform a new task, and then expecting a promotion on your first day.
This just won't happen.
So here's how you need to position yourself when you're asking your date over for dinner (I go into this in greater detail in Chet's Online Dating System - but I wanted to go over the basics again, because it's so important.)
When you ask her over for dinner, you do NOT let her come unless she agrees to bring either the wine, or the dessert.
And here's why: If she has no vested interest in your meal, then her involvement and commitment to it is NOT very strong. And if her commitment (and therefore her level of excitement) isn't very high, your results will be predictably lower.
See, Chet's Online Dating System is about RAISING the bar, and lifting your standards and your likelihood of success FAR beyond what it is now, and FAR beyond what you've ever thought it could be.
I know getting her to bring drinks or dessert may not SOUND like a big deal, but psychologically, it really is.
And how do you get her to participate in dinner, and increase her curiosity and desire?
The answer is simple.
You casually say something like this: "Hey, if you're willing to bring the wine (or the dessert, or whatever you want), why don't you come on over on Friday night, and I'll cook you my World-Famous Chet's (use your name) Chicken Dinner?"
Easy, right?
Now try it again: "Hey, if you're willing to bring the wine (or the dessert, or whatever you want), why don't you come on over on Friday night, and I'll cook you my World-Famous Chet's (use your name ) Chicken Dinner?"
Even easier, now isn't it?
Now just say it again, one last time: "Hey, if you're willing to bring the wine (or the dessert, or whatever you want), why don't you come on over on Friday night, and I'll cook you my World-Famous Chet's (use your name ) Chicken Dinner?"
See, isn't this positioning totally different from "I'd love to make dinner for you on Friday."
Remember, Chet's Online DatingSystem shows you how YOU'RE the prize. Make sure she always knows it and even more important -- make sure YOU always believe it, and everything else will fall into place.
Now go find the woman of your dreams,
Chet Rowland, The Chetinator
Creator of Chet's "Automatic" Online Dating System
The World's First Sexual Attraction System For Men
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