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Dating Tips for Men
The Perfect E-mail
I recently received an e-mail I think you'll be able to relate to.
I have a NUMBER of helpful tips here, and because it's quite long, I'm going to talk about it over the next couple of days. It goes like this:
"Hey, I recently purchased David D's meeting women online and I listened to your interviews and they were awesome. Of course I still don't know how to write a perfect first e-mail that all the girls would respond, but I am working on it."
First of all, don't kid yourself - there's no such thing as a "perfect" e-mail, any more than there's one "perfect" pick-up line, O.K.?
But what IS important when it comes to attracting woman online, is that you create a COMPELLING profile women can look at... a website they can go to, and learn all about who you are and what you're all about... and curiosity-provoking e-mails that stimulate a woman and give her a good enough experience that she'll feel compelled to respond to.
ALL of these things are inside my Online Dating System.
And also inside Chet's Online Dating System, I give you not ONE e-mail that provokes curiosity and generates a very desirable response... not TWO e-mails, but if you order the "Find Your Soulmate" System, you actually get TWENTY-FIVE proven e-mails literally hundreds of women have responded to many many times over.
In fact, I've even included my "I Get The Sense" letter, and that one is SO effective, it's the one I rely on most. That one's like carrying around a perpetual winning lottery ticket inside your pants-pockets, and I'm dead serious about that.
(If you're not as motivated as the Find Your Soulmate System owners, you can get the "Part-Time Lovers" System, and you'll get TEN different e-mails included inside that one, but the "I Get The Sense Letter" is NOT included in this system.)
All you to do is "cut and paste" these e-mails to fit your own personality, and the woman you're talking to, and you're good to go.
And now just think about this for a moment -- if all you did was send out 25 e-mails a day (which would take you W-A-A-Y less than an hour to do) and let's say you took one day a week off... and suppose, for whatever reason, you're not following the entire onine ddating system right and ONLY 10% of the women you send e-mail to, respond to you - that's now FIFTEEN new and different woman you've not got a relationship going with, EACH week.
That's over 750 new women a year.
See how you're going to have to go out of your WAY to screw things up in this case? You're going to almost be FORCED into having fun.
That's why, I know this may seem hard to believe now, but you'll see it's true, once you get my online dating system up-and-running, you're going to have to wind up shutting it down after a while because you simply will NOT be able to handle all this action.
"I kind of revised David D's email and sent it to about 10 girls. This is what I wrote:
Well, you sound like you might be more than just another pretty face. Something tells me that you're probably getting about 50 emails a day from loser guys saying things like "Hi, I saw your profile and think we might have some things in common. Please let me know if you are interested in knowing more. Hope to talk to you soon." blah blah.
In any event, I go to college and know how to have a good time. I'm more than the usual amount of interesting and funny, so you'd better like to laugh.
You sound like you might make an interesting friend. I think it would be foolish if we didn't talk at least one time. So message me back and we will go from there."
I would venture to say you're getting VERY little, if any responses from e-mails like this.
For starters, you're mentioning that all the other guys out there are "losers". This is negative and who wants to respond to someone who's being negative?
Plus, to be honest with you, your e-mail is NOT very much different from any of these "losers" who are out there e-mailing women themselves.
To make SURE you never ever make mistakes like this, inside my online dating system, you ALSO get a manual called 275+ Complete LIVE e-mail Screw-Ups Men Send Women! This book is EYE-OPENING, because these are actual e-mails men are sending women.
So this way you'll learn real examples of what to DO, and maybe even more important --what NOT to do. (You can see details about this manual here.
Also, when you say "we might have some things in common" - like what? And which things?
Why aren't you talking about them?
Plus, saying "Please let me know if you are interested in knowing more. Hope to talk to you soon" sounds VERY needy, and as you KNOW, nothing puts a woman off more than this, right?
And then you commit the cardinal sin by saying "You sound like you might make an interesting friend." Lord knows that's the LAST thing you want - to be "friends" with her, right?
That's the kiss of death. You know, guys come up to me all the time saying they can't stand it because they always wind up being looked at as a good "friend" instead of as a lover.
With e-mails like this, there's no wondering why.
Overall, there just aren't any benefits and there isn't any kind of a compelling reason why a woman would want to respond to this kind of an e-mail.
Finally, you've got to understand - most women aren't online looking for friends, they're online looking for their soulmate, just like you are.
All you need to do is give them a reason to believe... their soulmate... just may be... you!
Now go find the woman of your dreams,
Chet Rowland, The Chetinator
Creator of Chet's "Automatic" Online Dating System
The World's First Sexual Attraction System For Men
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