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Dating Tips for Men
A Picture Really DOES Paint A Thousand Words, At Least!
I was recently reading a post made by a supposed dating "guru" that was talking about how you use pictures in your online dating profile.
The guy said all you need is one picture of yourself -- that women aren't as visual as men are -- and plus, if you aren't really that attractive, or if you're downright ugly, you really didn't want more than one because it would scare women away.
This is a perfect example of what my mother used to call "The Blind Leading The Blind".
The truth is, there's not ONE piece of factual data in that statement.
Here, let's break this mis-information down one step at a time.
First, although women aren't as visual as men, when it comes to "sexual" stimulation -- and having said that, I've also been with my fair share of women who ARE very visual sexually, but for the most part, men are more so -- but doesn't common sense tell you, the woman of your dreams wants to see as many pictures of you as she possibly can?
It's a little off base, but you'll appreciate this analogy:
If you had to buy a car, only by looking at pictures of it, wouldn't you want to see as many different pictures of your car, from as many different angles as possible?
Wouldn't you want to see the interior, the exterior, the dashboard up close, the stereo system, underneath the hood, and the inside of the trunk?
Obviously, we're not comparing apples-to-apples here, but you get my point, right?
So now that we've completely disproved the first two "brainstorm ideas", let's see what's next, O.K.?
But what happens if you're not going to get on the cover of people magazine's "sexiest man" issue?
Meaning, maybe your parents never got around to getting you those braces you needed when you were a kid... or maybe you have too many moles on your cheek... or maybe... maybe God even hit you with the ugly stick for cryin' out loud -- you know what I'm saying -- you're fat, you're bald, you can't reach the cabinets in your kitchen -- whatever.
The point is, what if you're not that attractive and you're concerned about coming across poorly and turning some women off.
Well, let me tell you something: First of all, EVERYBODY is going to turn "some" women off. In case you haven't noticed, no one's got the market cornered on perfection yet, especially as far as beauty goes.
And how shallow are you to think that the only thing the love of your life wants is a good-looking slab of meat and that's it?
Don't you think she's looking for more than that?
Aren't you?
And let me just give you a little tip about pictures: If you aren't that attractive, or if you've got a pot belly and less hair than Yul Brenner (I'm dating myself now), then you more than anyone, MUST post LOADS of pictures online, so the love of your life sees how well-rounded you are.
Think about it, haven't you ever met a woman who wasn't that attractive at first blush, or maybe she was even downright ugly, but once she opened her mouth up and warmed you up with her incredible cheerful personality or smile, didn't she "instantly" get better looking?
So why do you think different rules would apply to you, ding-dong?
Listen, the only thing you've got to be careful about with respect to posting pictures online, is making sure you post the right ones.
In Chets Online Dating System I've devoted a substantial amount of time to explaining exactly what KINDS of pictures you MUST have posted on your online dating profile, long with the kinds of pictures you absolutely want to avoid EVER posting, at least if you ever want to go out on any dates that is.
Plus, I also show you the one picture you MUST have, that nearly every woman you speak to will comment on -- over-and-over again -- regardless of who you are and what you look like.
Now go find the woman of your dreams,
Chet Rowland, The Chetinator
Creator of Chet's "Automatic" Online Dating System
The World's First Sexual Attraction System For Men
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