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Dating Tips for Men
The Power Of An 'Open' Mind
Many times you run across a woman who just doesn't seem to be your "type".
Perhaps she's missing your favorite physical trait... perhaps she comes from a place you're not very familiar with and might even have some kind of pre-conceived stereotypes about... or perhaps you're just coming across her at the wrong time or even in the wrong place in your life.
But don't let a woman who what might at first blush, seem to be "un-important", escape!
Always keep an open mind, because you never know what can happen!
Here's a perfect example of what I'm talking about: Every morning, I wake up between 5 and 6:00 a.m., I do some work on the computer for a little while, and then by 7 a.m. I'm in the gym a few miles down the road from me, working out.
Over the last 2 years, I've seen a personal trainer there who was very attractive, but to be perfectly honest with you, when I'm in the gym, I'm paying attention to one thing and one thing only -- my workout.
Sometimes I train with a couple of buddies of mine, but even still, we're there to train and improve our lives physically, not to dick around and socialize, so I never really paid much attention to her, even though had we been in a different situation, I most certainly would have.
One day, out-of-the-blue, I happened to be doing some cardio and training alone, when I looked over to my right side, and who was on the Stairmaster next to me, but this female trainer. "Now why is it I'd never paid attention to her?" I thought to myself.
She's hot, she has a great body -- and who knows -- maybe she's a good person.
Well, I start talking to her, and what do you know, it turns out she's as nice a person on the inside, as she is attractive, on the outside.
So, I get her e-mail address, and then when I get home, I send her my "I get the sense e-mail", from the Find Your Soulmate System.
She got switched on and lit up as bright as a set of stadium lights in the middle of a blackout, and almost immediately after that, what initially started out as a friendly conversation, snowballed into a full-blown romance.
We've been seeing each other for a while now and we're both having fun.
Now there are TWO lessons to learn from this:
One, ALWAYS keep an open mind. If I hadn't been open to speaking with this woman, and instead had just taken her for granted as the "trainer in the gym", then nothing would ever have come of it.
And similarly, just because a woman MIGHT not seem like your ideal "soulmate" at first glance, keep an open mind and give her a shot. It's a lot easier to close a door later, than to try and re-open one you've already shut, so be smart.
And two, ALWAYS use the e-mail templates in your online dating system to speak to prospective female dates - regardless of HOW you meet them.
The language inside these templates has proven to be PRICELESS! And it's what I've used successfully, literally HUNDREDS of times. (But don't tell my new trainer-friend that, O.K.?)
Now go find the woman of your dreams,
Chet Rowland, The Chetinator
Creator of Chet's "Automatic" Online Dating System
The World's First Sexual Attraction System For Men
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