Dating Tips for Men

If you are afraid of the truth, then do NOT read this e-mail!

Let me warn you ahead of time:

If you are afraid of the truth, then do NOT read this e-mail!

Here's an e-mail I received from a 53-year old subscriber of mine. I'm going to respond, step-by-step:

"Hay Chetdewd. I found U on David DeAngelo's DVD's on Internet match sites for ladies. U are a fantastic oral presenter. Your style is really refreshingly informative. I like that U are not some kind of celebrity or incredibly handsome."

Listen, thanks for the compliment, but I have to be honest with you: If you're 53 years old... and you open up with Hay Chetdewd, then you've got some issues with your social skills and with your maturity.

Normal, well-adjusted guys, just don't speak like this.

I hate to be blunt, but it's important you're aware of this, because you're probably doing the same thing with women -- scaring them off because of your lack of interpersonal skills.

And since one of the most important things you can do for a woman is to make her feel "safe"... then guess what?

Right. You're going nowhere with her.

Make sense?

Good.

Next, yes, I'm "refreshingly informative" because unlike lots of the other supposed dating "gurus" out there, I'm actually speaking from the voice of experience. Both experience in the field, and... experience in the bedroom.

And as you noticed, I'm NOT some kind of celebrity or incredibly handsome either!

I'm a 51-year old pot-bellied guy who wears goofy Elvis-like glasses, and I have a good-old boy southern Tampa accent. But what I DO have, is a proven online dating system of attracting women, that works as reliably as a Swiss watch.

But that's good news for you and all my other subscribers, because if I can hook up online, then you can easily do the same thing, too.

Now more of his letter:

"About me: I'm a good guy; 53, only 5'8", healthy; not ugly, reasonably intelligent; adventurer; single; never married; early retired; like U am not lazy. I'm a wannabe romantic. I got zero zero lady friends; celibate for years. Personal equipment works well. Only had 1 or 2 short term girlfriends in whole miserable life. I'm socially inept. Sporty but not into spectator sports. I don't like to spend much money. I'm a multiple homeowner in Las Vegas where there is fantastic action."

Thanks for some more insight here, I can definitely help you and I'm glad you're aware of your social limitations.

This is important because you can't fix a problem until you know it exists.

If you're only 53 and retired, you must have a few bucks put away. Good going there!

But to be honest, it sounds like you really haven't learned how to enjoy the fruits of your labor.

For instance, you say you're a "wannabe" romantic.

I say "quit wanting to be... and start being". You know, things happen when you're in motion and nothing is ever going to get done unless you start taking MASSIVE action!

Listen, by your own admission, you're socially inept (and by the way, that's all about to change now), so what do you think's going to happen -- the "perfect" woman is going to magically appear on your doorstep and presto-change-o, everything you've always wanted to happen to you is going to suddenly become reality?

Hell no!

Look, I understand, especially if you've never really had any kind of what you'd call proper "relationship" with a women, that you're probably a little scared at this point -- but you've got to face reality that if you don't start "somewhere" -- and that probably means failing a few times, then nothing's going to change.

Like the old saying goes, "insanity is doing the same thing over-and-over again and expecting something different to happen."

It's true!

It's probably not your fault either. After all, it's not like you were given "hooking up" lessons or anything like that. No one ever "taught" you how to have a relationship, and if your parents were anything like mine, Lord knows THEY sure as hell didn't give you any kind of good example of how to do it, right?

But be positive, you're in Vegas and there are just a TON of women in Vegas, and loads more women coming into Vegas daily -- and ALL of them need someone to show them around.

And get rid of that "scarcity" mentality -- it's a HUGE problem! If you've got money, spend it!

Live like a king and you'll feel like a king.

I'm not telling you to BLOW your money, I'm just saying you need to start "rising" up, not holding yourself back down.

You can't take it with you, and while your bits and pieces ARE still working, make it worth your while -- enjoy life, start living a little bit and come unglued every once-in-a-while so you can remember what it's like to feel alive.

O.K.?

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Next time we'll take a look at the rest of this "Wannabee" Romantic's letter and see how we can help him become more successful with the opposite sex, so he can change his life and feel better about himself in general!

And here's more good news speaking of Vegas: Did you know you can use Chet's "Automatic" Online Dating System to hook up with women in Vegas, Reno, or even El Paso, Texas, as easy as hooking up with a woman around the corner from your house?

It's true!

And you're going to see it first-hand yourself, in just about 2 weeks when I release it... and completely turn the online dating world, upside down!

Now go find the woman of your dreams,

Chet Rowland, The Chetinator
Creator of Chet's "Automatic" Online Dating System
The World's First Sexual Attraction System For Men