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Dating Tips for Men
"From Needy Guy To The Ultimate Prize"
I've been getting a lot of emails sent to me with the same theme of...
Whenever there's a woman I really like, I seem to mess things up and come off as a needy guy, when in reality I'm far from being a needy or desperate type of guy in other areas of my life.
or...
Whenever there's a woman I'm not really into that much they seem to want me.
or...
How can I get more women that I'm hot for to feel the same way about me?
This is a very good question because what I'm about to share with you can be used in ANY encounter you're involved in.
The problem is when you show not only a woman but anybody that you depend on their response to make YOU happy they could care less.
Women I talk with and I've talked intimately with a lot of them, they always complain about different men who keep begging for their attention.
They seldom have time for them and on rare occasion when they do they only use them for temporary enjoyment.
Guys who they use to take them out to dinner, on trips, shopping, ect. And then toss them aside. Without even getting a kiss on the cheek.
Has this ever happened to you?
What you need to do is have a take it or leave it attitude in a nonchalant way.
You need to create offers of what it would be like IF you chose to spend some of your precious time with them.
Act like you're living a fun, adventurous and exciting life, even if you're not.
It's like when a woman calls me or sends me an email I don't respond immediately.
I let them know I'm usually a very busy and much in demand kind of man.
Yet it only makes them try harder.
If you've been making this same mistake...STOP IT!
You have to convince yourself first that YOU are the ultimate prize. Not her. I don't care how much you want her.
It might not be true today but when you start acting as if it were, it soon will be.
You have to create scarcity. Everybody wants what they think there is not much of available.
Why are gas prices so high now?
Because supposedly its getting rarer and harder to get.
We appreciate it much more when we finally get it and place a higher value on it.
If you have split custody of your kids and only see them twice a month it's a lot bigger deal than if they get to see you every day.
It's the same in any selling environment. When you act like you have to make a sale or you'll starve the buyer is in control.
Whether you like it or not you have to sell yourself and what you have to offer.
Here's why...
She is getting offers from tons of other guys who want what they think she is capable of giving them.
It might be a date, companionship, one night stand or a tender loving relationship.
You have to differentiate yourself from all the other men pursuing her.
You do this by not responding to her like all the other guys.
I show you exactly how to do this step by step at Chet's Online Dating System where you can learn how to create this mindset and environment for yourself.
I've made lots of sales in all kinds of environments due to the fact of supply and demand.
I know the value of what I have to offer. If you feel like what you're offering doesn't have high value neither will they.
I usually get what I want in any type of situation because my mindset is it doesn't matter one way or another if they take what I offer or not.
You must be willing to walk away no matter how bad you want it.
I don't need their money from a sale or in this case the attention and affection of a woman to make me happy.
I have lots of other people who want what I have when I decide to offer it.
Even if you are crazy for a woman you must never let her know how bad you want her.
The reason why is because now she has the power. She has what you want. She gets to make the rules instead of you.
Why should she decide if you can have the privilege of taking her out, wining and dining her, kissing her or even having hot passionate sex with her.
It should be your choice, and it will be, when you learn how to position it as her privilege.
If you want to really create lust and desire in a woman reverse the rules like I do. I make them work for my time, attention, and the rare opportunity to get me in bed.
When you create an opportunity for them to get some of your rare free time they will place a much higher value on it. They'll feel lucky and start to desire you beyond your wildest imagination.
I invest in condos on the beach. When I first went to buy one I showed the buyer I was very interested in his. I wanted it real bad.
Needless to say he would not negotiate on the price. He had the power because the condos on the beach were scarce at the time. He was in control.
As other condos eventually became available he had no choice but to accept my offer because I had other choices and he knew it because I told him so.
The procession of who has the power can be reversed if you know how to do it.
Just because you think you're a nice guy who women should love and appreciate it does not work that way.
They are human just like you. They want what's not readily available.
Why do people stand in long lines?
Because whatever is being offered can't easily be had.
In my www.chetsdatingsystem.com I show you exactly how to make yourself the prize women desire to get the opportunity to be with.
Women will suddenly be chasing you just like they chase me. I don't have to pursue them because I have an abundance of women waiting in line to receive my letters, phone calls and IF they pass the tests I put them through, then maybe, they can have some of my valuable and scarce time.
You must learn to value what you have to offer them more than what you think they can give you.
I have some guys who write me telling me how great my proven online dating system is and that they would buy it now if it was cheaper.
One guy suggested to me if I priced it like other people's courses it would fit his budget.
He said I'll buy it today.
I casually inform them that this is not for everybody.
It's not just a course. It's only for men who want a complete proven online dating system just like I use to bring women into their lives that they have no chance of meeting otherwise.
A online dating system that I've personally invested 7 years and thousands of hours of time tweaking and making mistakes, so you don't have to.
I know what you want and need because I'm just like you. I want the same thing whenever I invest in something.
CONSISTENT RESULTS!
I'm saving you tons of time, money, frustration and loneliness by making this available.
I have women write and call me inviting to take me out or cook me meals all the time. They want to take me to parties, rides on their boats, and introduce me to their friends.
Why?
Because I let them know that I lead a very active, busy and exciting life. I don't spend my rare free time with just any woman. They have to earn it.
They have to show me they value what I have to offer more than the next woman.
Even if you have all the free time in the world, act as though you are a very in demand kind of man, with lots of interesting friends. Who also want to spend time having fun with you. Because they already know you're fun and exciting to be with.
They know they can get any run of the mill boring guy because they get offers everyday.
On the other hand, I let them know that when I work I work very hard but when I do take time to play I really know how to make her have memories she'll never forget.
Now go find the woman of your dreams,
Chet Rowland, The Chetinator
Creator of Chet's "Automatic" Online Dating System
The World's First Sexual Attraction System For Men
P.S. When you get these tools and skills women will start pursuing you just like they will pursue Nate, "The 20-year-old virgin" after he spends a week learning from me. Read Nate's diary.
Only about 18 hours until he arrives in Tampa.
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