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Last week I was out fishing with one of my buddies.
He's got 3 children, so of course, from time-to-time I get to see him try and educate his kids and give them life lessons about growing up and making your way in this world.
On this particular day, he was having a frustrating time with his 13 year old son, and he made a comment that was very profound. He told his son, "Look, people treat you the way you want to be treated. So if you're not getting the respect you deserve, look at your own behavior for the reasons why, FIRST. Then, MAYBE you should look at the person who's disrespecting you, but chances are you'll fix things within yourself before it gets to that stage."
Although I don't say it in these exact words, this is the cornerstone concept behind the success of Chet's Online Dating System.
If you believe YOU are the prize... if you believe YOU deserve the very best, then guess what?
You'll get it.
If, on the other hand, you are filled with self-doubt and desperation, you'll get women who treat you like second-class citizens and sloppy second and third place runner-ups.
Make sense?
Then my buddy told his son if he wasn't getting the results he wanted, because he didn't feel confident, he should fall back on the old adage that sales managers tell rookie sales people:
"Fake it until you make it."
Meaning, pretend you feel a certain way about yourself, and carry on and interact with people as if you really believed you felt that way inside.
You should do the same thing when it comes to women.
At first it will be un-natural to do this, and you'll feel a little awkward, but that's O.K. Because once you start seeing the changes in how women are treating you, and once you start seeing the results of your "new" behavior, suddenly, you'll soon find you DON'T have to "fake it" anymore.
It'll become very natural for you to act like this, and on top of that, since you've already "programmed" your sub-conscious mind into thinking you're someone "else", this new (and very improved) character will take over and prosper.
Remember, women really WILL treat you the way you want to be treated. Believe YOU are the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. Study the unannounced bonus "Secret Recipe For Success" you received inside Chet's Online Dating System - over-and-over again... and in a very short while, YOU'LL be steering the direction of your dating life, not someone else.
And what you'll find, is the quality of women you're attracting will jump up tremendously, the moment you start demanding this, by seeing yourself in a much better light.
Now go find the woman of your dreams,
Chet Rowland, The Chetinator
Creator of Chet's "Automatic" Online Dating System
The World's First Sexual Attraction System For Men
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