Dating Tips for Men

Smile And The World Smiles Back At You

Ever wonder why, when you go on vacation -- regardless of where you are -- (except Miami) everyone always seems to be so "nice"?

Sometimes it makes you wonder "Gee, I wish people were this nice where I live."

The truth is, a lot of what you're feeling has to do with how YOU'RE seeing the world around you.

If you're looking at the glass half-full, then things look a lot better. When you're on vacation, you generally have a lot less pressure on you and so you look at things more optimistically.

Often times, in the midst of all the hustle and bustle of your "regular" life, you don't get the chance to do this.

Let me suggest to you that today is the first day of the rest of your life, and it's also the first day you should change your outlook on things.

Good women are attracted to happy men, not stressed-out gloomy guys who have negative outlooks on life, and on their own situation.

So with that in mind, I want you to STOP whatever it is you're doing -- right NOW, and just sit back in your chair and take a deep breath.

Exhale ALL your anxiety and problems away, out into the world to flutter away from you.

Do this again slowly, a few more times, until you're completely relaxed, and until you can "hear" yourself breathing over everything else.

Now, once you've got that down and you've blown out all the "stress" and "bad air", close your eyes, and think of something that truly makes you happy inside.

Whether it's holding your little girl's hand, or cuddling up on the couch with a good woman, or even it it's just relaxing under the hot summer sun at the beach and listening to all those seagulls squawking and flying around you overhead, think about these thoughts and continue focusing on completely relaxing.

If you're thinking about something that TRULY makes you happy, than you should be smiling right about now.

Hold these thoughts in your mind's eye for at LEAST ONE FULL MINUTE.

Then sit back and continue deep breathing for a few more seconds until you're ready to "come back" to earth.

Feels good, doesn't it?

You know, scientists over in Scotland recently found that people listening to comedy routines have a higher tolerance level. And there's truth to the old adage that when you smile, the rest of the world smiles along with you.

Use this exercise whenever you're stressed out. You'll be a better man... a happier man... and in all likelihood, when you're speaking to women online using my online dating system - a man who's a LOT more in demand because you've got a sunny disposition women will pick up on and enjoy.

Now go find the woman of your dreams,

Chet Rowland, The Chetinator
Creator of Chet's "Automatic" Online Dating System
The World's First Sexual Attraction System For Men