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Getting Laid
by Chet Rowland

Getting laid is an important topic to most men. You can search Google to find all kinds of advice on how to get laid, the fastest way to get a woman in bed and all kinds of other get laid schemes. It is ironic because many times the people writing these get laid books are the people who are not getting any.

Most of the get laid sites offer tips like proper grooming, being playful, keeping the woman interested, and I even read a tip about pity sex. If everything else does not work, try to get pity sex. How sad is that?

There are also the get laid sites that really mean...prostitution. They say you are only a click away from getting laid, but what they fail to mention is you're a credit card number away from getting some action.

Getting laid isn't a big deal to any guy who is getting it, but for those guys that can't seem to score it is everything. The truth is, it is just like anything else in life...If you think you can do it, you can and if you think you can't, then you can't. It is all about confidence.

You do need to get out and socialize with the world around you if you expect to have any kind of relationship with people. Sitting at home behind a computer or on the couch is not going to cut it. If you want to get action, you have to get out in the real world.

You also need the confidence in yourself to communicate with women. If you are a wallflower, you are going to remain a lonely person for the rest of your days. Being shy is a huge impediment in every aspect of life. It will hurt you in business, as it will hurt you in your personal life. It is a fear that you can overcome, but means you have to step out of your comfort box. You can't even think about getting laid until you get over your fears of meeting and communicating with women.

I teach men to get out of their comfortable level in baby steps. I took Nate the Virgin to the mall first and told him to simply walk up to a woman and ask her for the time. Sounds silly, but for someone who is petrified of women, it is truly a big deal. Once he became comfortable with the idea of talking to women about general stuff, it became easier to take it to the next level.

You build confidence through experience. Doesn’t matter if you are talking about getting laid or selling encyclopedias, it is all the same. You have to put yourself in situations where you create opportunity. If you are a shy guy, the Internet is a great place to meet women because you don’t have the same kind of anxiety as you do in person. Always remember, women want to get laid just as much as men do. Women are just quiet about it. It is not acceptable for a woman to share her horniness as it is for men.

I created my online dating system to help men gain confidence and open themselves up to the opportunity of meeting as many women as they would like through the Internet. You have to position yourself as the prize. You have to believe in yourself before you can expect anyone else to believe in you.

What it comes down to, is if you want to get laid you need to change your mind set and get out there and make it happen. It isn’t this complex psycho babble people try to make it out to. Getting laid is simple.