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Hey it is David DeAngelo.

I am sitting here with my good friend, Chet Rowland, the author of Chet's Dating System.

I wanted to say a couple of words about Chet and his system:

The thing that separates this system from all the others that I have
seen is that it was created by a guy who literally types with one finger
and I have seen him do it many times now and the other thing that makes it very interesting is that, not only does he type with one finger, but he also has an online dating system that he has created that has women lining up to meet him, flying in from all over the country.

All over the continent

All over the world.

I've seen the women. I've seen the results and if you can type with one finger and do simple computer commands, then you can take the cut and paste materials that he has given you and I believe you can get amazing results.

I've seen it happen. I've seen it happen for friends. I've seen it happen with my own eyes and I believe it could happen for you too.

So I recommend that you check it out and take advantage of it. Get this system. Try the methods. They will work for you.

David DeAngelo
Dating Guru & Author, DoubleYourDating.com

Hello Chet.

You deserve a ton of thanks for the insight your material has given me in my quest to find the girl of my dreams. I bought your system in February of this year as my search was getting me nowhere, and now wedding plans are in my future.

Before your system I had been enrolled in a bunch of sites, practically each one I found, and I would send out the same pre typed message block copied to each woman of interest, with out any reference at all to what she wrote in her profile. As you know, there were few replies. Your information came when I had begun to try eharmony. There again, I had started by taking the list of possible questions, writing a standard reply, and sending them without any reflection to what the lady had written. Again, poor results.

Your idea of taking prewriten templates of my thoughts and adding pieces to reflect the ladies words were golden. The response was better right away. Your idea of clearly defining what I really wanted in a woman, for being honest and happy with who I was, and the concept of "NEXT" when a match was not right for me were golden also.

Times were that I would be dating a woman, feeling inside that we were not a match, but still stay involved with the thought that some how she or I would meld, only to break it off later.
Your concept of being honest and saying "NEXT" gave me the courage to move on and find the right girl for me.

The best part of your material was the audio recordings of your actual conversations and hearing how words of romance and asking honest, open questions sound. Listening to your conversations and using your manner in e-mails and alter conversations worked wonders.

My use of the word "longing" in conversations made my ladies eyes light up.

Your material came to me just before a new match, and helped me find the lady of my dreams. She recently told me that the first e-mail from me, written after listening to your CD's, made her cry with joy. She then showed me the binder that she kept of all the e-mails we have sent since.

Really, your information helped bring out into words that were in my heart all along, just needing a way to be expressed. Here is her reply to an e-mail sent recently.

Hey Sexy Blue Eyes

Wow what an email. So very suggestive. So very much appreciated. Do you have any idea how much I want to be in your arms right now. Or maybe under your desk????? Or I could sit in your lap and be your helper????

I miss you my darling so very much. I long for your touch.

Alas I have had a busy day, and have a few minutes between interviews and meetings to type a short message to my love.

So Caro Mio, are we still on for tonight ???? Let me know - I will check the email before I leave the office.

I love you my darling. Hope you are having a good day.

All my Love

So now wedding plans are being made, and my thanks are to you. This lady is a keeper, we are true soul mates.

With warm regards,

Kevin Boyle, BC

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I am writing this testimonial to share with all readers the fantastic journey I have embarked upon by utilizing Chet’s amazing Romantic Hero System and how I have once again regained total confidence as a man, professional and discovered my full potential to live life to the fullest.

Prior to my initial contact with Chet Rowland, at 45 I was at the lowest depth of my life in terms of my physical and emotional well being. I gained a tremendous amount of weight and was tipping the scales at 230lbs and my social life came to a complete

standstill. A viscous divorce compounded with work related issues to my profession as an Architect compounded my spiral trend downwards. My Friday nights were spent after a titanic work week struggle watching the late night wrestling matches drinking beer with my white German Shepherd till we both passed out together on the couch. My social contacts with women were few and far between and the occasional date I was fortunate enough to stumble upon always ended in a one meeting demise. At this point I began to blame all issues around me, hating life and also women. I simply could not find any solutions, until one Friday night when I was haphazardly surfing the web, I typed in dating systems and came upon Chets website.

What caught my attention immediately was the professional and varied presentation layout and the wealth of information offered on this particular site. After reading and analyzing the information, I was still somewhat skeptical probably more as a result of my low self esteem. I decided to contact Chet Rowland personally and it was the phone call that began the transformation and changed my life both professionally and socially to a level I could not ever have imagined.

Chet took the time to speak with me and listen to my frustration of futility. His matter of fact approach and wealth of knowledge in relation to dating and business convinced me to invest in his system along with my desperate state of mind. I was extremely impressed with the amount of varied and quality of information sent to me for the purchase price offered. I immediately began studying the information and within the first week in my semi depressed state, I had women responding to me and one in fact booked a flight from Dallas Texas to spend the weekend with me. What I realized was that this system had no boundaries or restrictions in terms of success. The more I implemented the techniques in conjunction with investing in my self improvement the more the results attained a higher level both in the quality of women and the enrichment of my professional life. Throughout this whole process, Chet was always available to personally answer questions I posed to him and his professional guidance served to accelerate the process of success. My internet profile became bombarded with women wanting to meet me and the e-mail templates from the Romantic Hero system simply brought about results beyond my wildest dreams. Suddenly, I was dealing from a position of strength and abundance.

The few set backs that occurred were now merely a tiny blip on the radar screen and the system taught me to quickly reorganize and continue with drawing in more responses. Since that phone call from 4 months ago, I have lost nearly 40 lbs and by utilizing this amazing system, I have now complete command of my social and professional life.

In closing I want to thank Chet for his patience and high level of professionalism in making this system available to me for the ultimate goal of finding that one special woman in this life. I am now seeing a very special person – a woman I always dreamed about and searched for and now that search has come full circle. She has taken the step of flying down from Washington State to visit me and after our encounter we have made plans to spend New Years together and perhaps start a new life. To all the readers, I can not stress the limitless opportunities that this system has provided me and with that I was able to come closer to my ultimate goal. I have never been happier in my life and this system is simply a treasure of personal and professional wealth that is virtually unattainable and extremely rare to find any where else.

I thank you Chet as a friend and as a professional and I have the utmost of confidence this system can and will work for any man seeking to enrich his life.

With Compliments
George Cherewan
Architect

Hey Chet!!! This material is absolutely it!!!!! All of it is worth its weight in pure gold!!!! As a matter of fact this material is worth far more than all of the gold at Fort Knox 500 times over. To begin with, I was not skeptical about buying the product in the first place b/c when I read what you were talking about before you released it, I knew that it would work b/c everything that you were describing about women made sense to me in the first place. Everything that you said connected and I could tell that all of this was all true. You can always tell when someone is feeding you full of bull b/c there is something about what a person is saying that does not feel pure and right but EVERYTHING that you said was right on the money and I had a good feeling and I have been proven right.

Let me tell you what happened three nights ago. I was on the phone with a woman that I have known for quite some time and have been interested in for quite some time and for quite some time I have been trying to (in my own sneaky way) to pursue her but I did not want her to know that I am interested in her. Let me tell you that the only thing that I did was call her on the phone, directed the conversation to dating and what she was looking for in a man and then it was ON!!!! All that I did was simply highlight certain points in the Transcription for March 2006 Eavesdrop Call that the woman that was describing what she like to do and have done and repeated them to my friend and I quoted 2 of the e-mail case studies in my own way (conversation style) and she insisted that I come over right away. Now bear in mind that I have known this woman for 15 years and we slept together once back in 1994 and I haven't gotten anything from her since. Up until now, all that I have gotten from her are friendly little pecks here and there when I am leaving .Before hand,she probably called me in the last 15 years about 8 times all together. She has call me everyday since then just to so called "see what I am doing".

For all of you guys that are reading this and thinking about getting this material...DO IT AND DO IT NOW...YOU WILL BE GLAD FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE. I now walk around with my chest stuck out b/c she is not the only one that I have been with this week..Ha haaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!! Boy do I love America!!!!!!!!!!

Your man in Arkansas.

Sam

Hey Chet,

After recently marrying the woman of my dreams, I had to write and say thanks.

It wasn’t all that long ago that I was a complete loser when it came to meeting women.

But…

After spending that week with you in Tampa, I went home a changed man.

I still remember sitting with you at your computer, and how I was completely blown away when you showed me your system for automatically attracting more beautiful women in one week, than most guys meet in a lifetime.

I could hardly believe it when you showed me all those emails from all those beautiful women, who were literally begging to meet you in person.

And the photos they sent you!

Talk about an eye full. These women were gorgeous, and who would’ve thought that they’d actually send you nude photos of themselves, trying to get your attention.

The fact is, I would have never believed it was true if I hadn’t seen it with my own eyes.

I still remember asking you, “How in the heck do you keep up with all these emails from all these women? I mean, for crying out loud, you can’t even type!”

And that’s when you showed me your copy & paste system.

You had all these pre-done replies, and they were incredible.

When you communicated with these women using your system, it got them totally involved with what was going on, and made them want you even more.

And all you had to do was “copy & paste”, which took just a couple seconds.

I gotta be honest, I never had the kahones to talk to a woman like that before, but after seeing the results you were having (compared to the results I’d always had in the past), I figured it was time to try something new.

And then, I got put to the test.

You had gone out on a date that night, and I was sitting there on your computer, reading through all those emails in your system, thinking to myself, “I’ve got to get a copy of this for myself”.

And then…

It happened!

Out of nowhere, this Instant Message pops up on your computer, from a woman who obviously thought she was talking with you.

And let me tell you, this no ordinary IM.

She was saying things that most guys only dream about hearing from a woman (which I won’t repeat here).

She’d certainly caught my attention, that’s for sure!

But you know me, and I definitely wasn’t no Casanova at the time. That’s why I almost closed out the Instant Message window on the computer.

But at that moment, I thought to myself, “What would Chet do”?

And that’s when I knew I had to give this thing a try, and have a little fun at the same time.

I quickly browsed through the pre-done replies on your computer (which are very well organized I might ad) and found a great reply to send back.

I copied it, pasted it into the IM window, and hit the reply button.

As I was waiting for a response from her, I browsed through your files a little bit more.

To make a long story short, I spent the next 30-40 minutes carrying on an intense conversation with this woman, unlike any I’d ever had in my life.

And it was all thanks to your copy & paste system.

Before I knew it, she was practically begging to come over to the house for the evening.

Only problem was, she thought I was you.

And you know the rest of the story,

When you got home that evening, I told you about what had happened, so you could be prepared for the next time this lady made contact with you.

But…

The whole experience taught me an incredible lesson, which is, you don’t need looks, money, charm or anything else to have great success with women.

You just need to know how to talk with them in a way that hits their emotional hot buttons.

And thanks to your system, I was now able to do that.

And let me tell you, the results have been nothing short of staggering.

As you know, I’m pretty much a one-woman-man. In fact, I’ve been dating the same woman now for over two years.

In my past relationships, the “initial attraction” would wear off over time.

You know what I’m talking about.

That feeling that you have when you first meet a new woman. It usually lasts a few months, but eventually it wears off, and you just kind of lapse into this comfortable relationship.

Well. Not any longer!

Now that I know the right way to talk with a woman, the fire in our relationship is stronger than it’s ever been. And Like I said, we’ve been dating for over two years.

Never in my life have I been in such an exciting relationship that just continues to get better and better each day.

Lisa is the love of my life and the two of us were married on August 20, 2005.

And trust me…

As long as I continue communicating with her in the way you taught me, our relationship is going to last a lifetime.

And I owe it all to you Chet.

Thanks for everything!

Sincerely,

Kevin Thompson
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I'm a 49 year old psychologist and you'd think I'd know better. Chet saved me THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS, literally. Let me tell you how:

How many of you have been on this date:

$18.00 - two glasses of pre-dinner wine;
$12.00 - share one appetizer;
$66.00 - dinner for two and she hardly touches her plate;
$16.00 - two fattening deserts
Another $18.00 for more wine. Add in $26.00 for tips and $12.00 for parking.

She's fat and happy. You take her home, and she turns her head to let you kiss her on the cheek.

She tells her girlfriends about this chump who took her to such a nice restaurant, and you lie to your guy friends about how this chick wouldn't let you out of her apartment until 4:00 a.m. in the morning.

Sound familiar? That's right, cost me THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS. I felt like I was in that movie 'Groundhog Day.' I thank my lucky stars I met Chet.

Now it's more like this. I ask her when was the last time a guy fixed her a 'gourmet dinner?' She comes over the house (by the way, the kitchen is about 50 feet from the bedroom - my bedroom). Now it goes:

$6.00 - Brie cheese, grapes & crackers;
$4.00 - Two chicken breasts;
$1.50 - Brocolli.

She asks, 'Can I bring anything over?' You say, 'Yes, a (fill-in-the-blank) wine. But can you do me a favor and make it just a little better than that last wine you came over with.'

The best part, less wasted time and have more sex; better sex. There. You have it.

This guy Chet is a genius. I've done this over twenty times in the last year. And I smile to myself everytime, as I think of him (before sex, not during).

Mark

Chet,

I have no clue whether or not using your program attracts a better crop of women to me or not -- I’d be lying since I haven’t gone out and put the many things I’ve learned into practice. But so far, I can’t see any reason why it wouldn’t, any more than why using better quality bait wouldn’t catch me larger and better quality fish.

I do know this though: I’ve watched your video over and over, several times now, and each time I DID pick up a few very solid, and very easy to use, new ideas. You really do know your stuff when it comes to looking good without having to spend a ton of bread, and I really appreciate all your insight and experience about how women perceive what REALLY looks good on you.

Funny, but most of your ideas are rooted in good common sense, yet in a million years I never would have thought of any of them myself, just because that’s not my thing.

Like a lot of things, it’s what you DON’T know, that’s sinking your game.

Thanks Chet, I got good value for my money, not to mention all the money I won’t be wasting on clothes I normally would’ve bought, that weren’t doing a thing for me, outside of making other guys look more appealing than me!

Doug Cowler
San Diego, CA

Hello Chet,

I guess I used to be a lot like you. I worked in the kind of business where I wore a uniform and grimy work shoes all day, and then on the weekends I’d go out on dates wearing a cleaned pair of jeans and a nice t-shirt.

Yes, I looked “good” in a sense, but you were right when you said I looked good only when compared to a bunch of losers and has-beens. I’ve always considered myself to be a winner and felt I deserved better, and so I figured, let me give some of your suggestions a try.

First let me say that it was a big relief when I saw you didn’t need to spend a arm and a leg for the clothing you recommend, because even though I make good money, I certainly didn’t feel like blowing it all on clothing, if you know what I mean.

Second, I was glad putting the outfits together wasn’t any harder than putting breakfast or lunch together either. I guess I had been a little intimidated about this part, I don’t know why but I certainly didn’t need to be.

And then, once I finally got out there and “just did it”, I could not believe what happened.

I really did feel like a bigger and better person, just by looking at myself in the mirror. You wouldn’t have thought clothes could do this to you, but it’s the same feeling you’d get if you drive a brand new BMW down the road, vs. driving an old muddy beat up Ford pickup down the road.

You just feel “bigger” in the BMW, and that’s how I’m feeling in my newer, nicer, and more appealing clothes.

Also, another thing I was concerned with was not feeling like myself, but what happened in reality was that I was able to be MORE of myself, if you know what I mean. I guess looking good allowed me to feel better about being me, if that makes any sense.

Also, the first time a woman told me how great I looked, I figured it was a fluke, but it wasn’t. I now regularly hear this, which makes me feel even more confident about myself.

I am glad I tried your DVD out and I would suggest anyone else who is skeptical, to give it a shot. There is no losing here, only “how much do you want to win”.

Thanks Chet, and I can’t wait until all your other products come out too.

Kenny Hutchins
Milwaukee, WI

Chet,

Please don’t use my real name on this. I want to thank you and give you an honest testimonial but I am somewhat embarrassed about my situation and so I don’t want my story to be “out there”.

Like the movie, I too, am a 40 year old virgin. I don’t want to get into why or how this happened, but let’s just say I have sworn on my dad’s grave that by the end of 2006, I will NOT be a virgin, as I intend to use your system to fix this problem.

I am making what I feel is GREAT progress, and one of the reasons why is because I went and ordered your “How To Look (And Feel) Like One Million Dollars” DVD.

It’s not that I’m unattractive or anything, but being 40 year old virgin, obviously does a number on your self-esteem. So basically, I tend to be my own worst enemy, by psyching myself out of even trying, before I actually even get the chance at screwing up or not.

I think that is about to change though.

Like I said, I am not unattractive, and by most standards, I’m above-average, at least compared to men my age. But when you’re walking around feeling low about yourself -- the truth is, no matter HOW good you look, women will sort of “know” this and not give you the time of day.

I just can’t explain what happened, but I can explain why and when things changed. As you know, my friend Layne referred me to you. He said if anyone can help me it was you.

And boy was he right. At first I thought you were a little over the top, what with those glasses and everything, but as I came to know you and understand you, I realized you are just a very confident person who wants to help others.

Anyway, back to what happened. When you saw me, the first thing you said was that I needed to invest in your “How To Look Like A Million Bucks DVD”. I was kind of insulted, but you explained that this was the first step for me in a very dramatic growing process, if I really wanted to make things happen.

Like I said, I thought you were a little nutty, but I also knew “Hey, you’re the guy getting all the women, not me”, and for $47 bucks, what did I really have to lose? Not much, right?

So, I went home and I watched your DVD. I had to watch it again, because the thing is, I was expecting something complicated and uncomfortable, like organic chemistry or something, but when it was more like 2 +2 = 4, I was actually taken off guard.

I never even considered that dressing nicer would make me feel any differently. Partly because it was something I never thought of, and partly because I would never even have known where to start -- I would probably have gone to some fancy clothing store and gotten taken for thousands and thousands of dollars, and wound up buying the wrong clothing, and not the important clothing you need to have to make women sit up in their seats and notice you.

So, back to my story.

You’ve got to understand that it is almost virtually impossible for me to feel good with respect to “women” Chet, and when you spoke with me and said not to worry, that even if I just make a little progress every week, as long as I’m moving forward, over a month, or over 3 months, that little progress would eventually make a significant impact.

Well, I am here to thank you and to tell you that you were right. You’ve really got this motivational stuff down.

Because here’s what happened after I watched your video. I went out and bought some of the items you suggested. Some of them I already had in my closet, but I just hadn’t worn them very often, and the rest I bought.

I couldn’t believe it was me when I stood there looking at myself in the mirror, after I put these clothes on. Most of the time I tend to wear khaki style pants and a collared shirt, and this was a very nice departure from my usual style.

It was a little “bold” for me, but funny enough, that’s’ how I felt when I looked at myself. A little bolder.

Maybe like how you feel when you’re a big motorcycle enthusiast and you get up on a brand new Harley.

So I took myself and my newer “bolder” attitude out, just to go for a walk through my local mall here in Arizona.

For the first time I can remember in my adult life, I had not one, but 3 different women actually looking at me with “that” look, and to be honest with you, I really did feel like a million bucks.

I am pretty sure at least one of the women wanted to at least say hello, but I felt so awkward and so glowing about getting these stares that I was kind of nervous and I avoided making contact or letting her make contact.

What’s amazing here is that I have strolled through this mall dozens of times before, without this ever happening.

Believe it or not, this experience has left me with a surge of confidence that I am going to be building on and like I said, using to make sure I “de-flower” myself within the early months of 2006.

I can’t tell you how much this has meant to me and how I feel like I’ve found the secret keys to my success with women.

Like you said, if all I do is build on this foundation, even a little bit, every week, doing more and more each time, then there really is no way I can fail here. I guess all you need sometimes is a push in the right direction and to just get moving on things.

Chet, thanks so much for your gentle push.

Sincerely,

Name Withheld
Mesa, Arizona

Thank you so much for your Dating System. What you’ve put together here is something that I had imagined for myself as a marketer – but you’ve already done all the work!

I’ve looked at all the other systems out there, and only one – yours – fits dating into my lifestyle. I’m a busy guy, with a budget and little time to waste “haunting” the bars and the bookstores. Your approach reveals how to look good and “entertain” women without breaking the bank. Plus, you’ve shown me how I can get the women of my dreams – on my terms – while simultaneously attracting her to me with minimal effort on my part. Plus, your motivational suggestions and your “can-do” attitude totally kicked my butt and got me to take action…when fear was holding me back.

It’s obvious that you are real and that you care. You have an ability to explain things using metaphors that are part of MY everyday experience, which really helps drive your points home. You’ve given me the confidence and the step-by-step plan that I need to get started with women. It’s been years since I was in a quality, intimate relationship, because I was always able to find an excuse to put it off. You’ve taken away those excuses…and I’m on my way.

The best part of this may not even be the women – it’ll be ALL the rewards I get to enjoy because I’ve grown as a PERSON, by knowing you and using your system. Keep up the great work!

Matt C.

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